ILE = Classic, but is batting alone...
― Al Ewing (Al Ewing), Tuesday, 14 January 2003 22:27 (twenty-three years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Tuesday, 14 January 2003 22:28 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 14 January 2003 23:03 (twenty-three years ago)
― fractal (fractal), Tuesday, 14 January 2003 23:09 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Tuesday, 14 January 2003 23:12 (twenty-three years ago)
Corporate Democracy to thread!
― Daniel_Rf (Daniel_Rf), Tuesday, 14 January 2003 23:14 (twenty-three years ago)
― Nicole (Nicole), Tuesday, 14 January 2003 23:15 (twenty-three years ago)
― fractal (fractal), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 00:15 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 00:19 (twenty-three years ago)
― fractal (fractal), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 00:24 (twenty-three years ago)
I started ILX to be the kind of message board I would like and with the odd lapse it is. Obviously my tastes in message boards are not entirely freakish because lots of other people like them too but I can easily see why someone wouldn't like this place: it switches between being cliquily flippant and fairly intellectual without warning; it's not terribly welcoming; it tends to pick new posters apart rather than indulging them; it steadfastly refuses to commit to anything. All of these I think are either good or not-bad things, though.
― Tom (Groke), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 00:38 (twenty-three years ago)
― di smith (lucylurex), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 00:45 (twenty-three years ago)
― toraneko (toraneko), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 00:49 (twenty-three years ago)
― di smith (lucylurex), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 00:51 (twenty-three years ago)
― Fuzzy (Fuzzy), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 00:52 (twenty-three years ago)
― kate, Wednesday, 15 January 2003 00:53 (twenty-three years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:01 (twenty-three years ago)
― electric sound of jim (electricsound), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:02 (twenty-three years ago)
Well fuck you too buddy! You can go suck on some pirate anus! I am 707aL cL8551x0R and I can take your hippie vegetarian union-supporting peace faggot ass to the pavement if you need any more proof
Bitch!
― Tom Millar (Millar), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:08 (twenty-three years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:09 (twenty-three years ago)
― fractal (fractal), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:12 (twenty-three years ago)
― Maria (Maria), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:14 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tom Millar (Millar), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:17 (twenty-three years ago)
*I hope none of you are grammar pedants*.
― fractal (fractal), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:20 (twenty-three years ago)
People posting "I'm going to kill myself" on message boards, and asking the posters to talk them out of it = dud.
― Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:21 (twenty-three years ago)
the great thing about ilx is that there's enough threads that i can always find a reason to procrastinate longer.
― Maria (Maria), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:31 (twenty-three years ago)
― fractal (fractal), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 01:40 (twenty-three years ago)
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 02:47 (twenty-three years ago)
― kate, Wednesday, 15 January 2003 10:23 (twenty-three years ago)
Oo, lets commit to something now. let's let's let's. What sort of thing can we commit to?
― Alan (Alan), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 10:43 (twenty-three years ago)
― Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 10:45 (twenty-three years ago)
― Ed (dali), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 10:52 (twenty-three years ago)
This is not Battersea Dogs' Home. How do you know that people who post things like "I am going to kill myself" aren't, at the specific moment they posted it, or for whatever amount of time elapses before and/or after posting it, aren't being honest? Can you read my mind, Kate? No you can't. So cease your crass generalisations.
― Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:01 (twenty-three years ago)
― leigh (leigh), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:01 (twenty-three years ago)
― Ronan (Ronan), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:03 (twenty-three years ago)
― Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:06 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:08 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:14 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:16 (twenty-three years ago)
― SittingPretty (sittingpretty), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:17 (twenty-three years ago)
While I have to confess to the odd bout of paranoia early on if something I've posted has been ignored or had the piss (mildly) taken out of it, I think you've got to not take things personally.
I also think that being forced to defend your arguments keeps you on your toes and (hopefully) means that you post less bollocks. May not always be the case with what I post, but it's an aim.
― James Ball (James Ball), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:25 (twenty-three years ago)
Because if you're seriously going to kill yourself then you wouldn't bother to log onto the internet and rant about it, you'd just do it. Come on, if someone starts posting things like that then they're just looking for a big hug aren't they ?! Its not a crime to want to be loved in a crisis, even by strangers.
― Fuzzy (Fuzzy), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:26 (twenty-three years ago)
Exactly. And isn't that why emoticons became so widely used.
― Fuzzy (Fuzzy), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:28 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:28 (twenty-three years ago)
i also think its fine not to respond. i mean, its a request not a demand?
― gareth (gareth), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:30 (twenty-three years ago)
― Pete (Pete), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:33 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 11:40 (twenty-three years ago)
― Matt DC (Matt DC), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 12:01 (twenty-three years ago)
And I get far too panicky and paranoid about things most of the time, which doesn't help.
It's hard to describe. Posters who know me in "real life" know the way I am and why I am that way, but it's difficult to express it in the necessarily limited context of a message board.
Anyway. Things are not too bad at the moment. I feel as though I am in the act of turning a corner but haven't completely turned the corner, if that makes any sense. I cannot pretend these feelings/problems aren't there. But compared to even one month ago, it's an improvement.
― Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 15 January 2003 12:25 (twenty-three years ago)
Absolutely. But I somehow don't get the feeling that ILE would be a place where a plethora of emoticons would be particularly welcome. I use them a lot elsewhere (although only really the main three), and have probably used them here without thinking, but.....oh, I dunno.
― SittingPretty (sittingpretty), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:20 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tom (Groke), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:24 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:29 (twenty-three years ago)
N, turns out you were right about this board being the rockistist, thanks.
― RJG (RJG), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:31 (twenty-three years ago)
I never can remember which way around to type emoticons anyway. Maybe that's why I don't like them.
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:36 (twenty-three years ago)
― SittingPretty (sittingpretty), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:38 (twenty-three years ago)
― Alan (Alan), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:39 (twenty-three years ago)
― SittingPretty (sittingpretty), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:39 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:41 (twenty-three years ago)
In my experience, posting online public suicide notes is a form of emotional blackmail as attention seeking behaviour. I've learned that there are better ways to get attention and support in love in ways that do not threaten or frighten or otherwise manipulate other posters. And that there are better ways to get professional help when that is needed. This board is not my shrink. This board should not be expected to be anyone's shrink. It's not a crime to want to be loved or supported in a crisis, no, and that is what friends are for. But there is a difference between asking for help, and demanding attention.
― kate, Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:41 (twenty-three years ago)
I should have guessed.
― RJG (RJG), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:43 (twenty-three years ago)
― SittingPretty (sittingpretty), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:46 (twenty-three years ago)
All I know is that in June last year I was literally about two days away from doing it. And somebody from this board stopped me. Contacted me and stopped me. Woke me up. Told me to write. Told me to continue living. Told me to reconnect with the world.
OK, if you want to be accurate about it, I saved my life. It was ultimately my decision not to end it. But I came to that decision only because I was made violently and palpably aware that it would have hurt somebody else if I had gone ahead and done it.
But hell, Kate, I don't even need to be saying all this to you. You know it already. You know it fine. It was a cry for help - and somebody answered. And to me that made the difference between life and death. I never ever saw it as emotional blackmail. Well you don't, do you, when you're the one who's perpetrating it...what do I know? Objectivity ahd despair are not natural partners.
― Marcello Carlin, Wednesday, 15 January 2003 14:58 (twenty-three years ago)
In the past, I have tried giving them up for a while here and elsewhere. Many of my comments were then *completely* taken the wrong way, by both new folks and old. So I'll stick with, thanks.
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 15:57 (twenty-three years ago)
― Fuzzy (Fuzzy), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 16:09 (twenty-three years ago)
― Sarah McLusky (coco), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 16:56 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 17:04 (twenty-three years ago)
― Chris P (Chris P), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 17:05 (twenty-three years ago)
― SittingPretty (sittingpretty), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 17:11 (twenty-three years ago)
― Tim (Tim), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 17:13 (twenty-three years ago)
― SittingPretty (sittingpretty), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 17:14 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 17:16 (twenty-three years ago)
Me using emoticons = a view into my secret soul, which goes by the name of Brett Beautiful.
― Ned Raggett (Ned), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 17:22 (twenty-three years ago)
― kate, Wednesday, 15 January 2003 17:37 (twenty-three years ago)
: /
― RJG (RJG), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 17:39 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 18:03 (twenty-three years ago)
I'll put a ;-) in here so this doesn't look "snide".
― kate, Wednesday, 15 January 2003 18:05 (twenty-three years ago)
― DV (dirtyvicar), Wednesday, 15 January 2003 19:37 (twenty-three years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:28 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:33 (twenty-three years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:34 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:35 (twenty-three years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:45 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:47 (twenty-three years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:48 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:52 (twenty-three years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:53 (twenty-three years ago)
― N. (nickdastoor), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:55 (twenty-three years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Thursday, 16 January 2003 00:57 (twenty-three years ago)
― naked as sin (naked as sin), Thursday, 16 January 2003 02:39 (twenty-three years ago)
As far as i can see i serve and will serve no useful purpose on this earth... the only reason i still burden the earth with my existence is that i do not have the courage to do what needs to be done.... but i am working on that...
And I just don't know what to say to him!
― toraneko (toraneko), Thursday, 16 January 2003 10:13 (twenty-three years ago)
― Marcello Carlin, Thursday, 16 January 2003 10:29 (twenty-three years ago)
See the thing is that Tassie has the highest per capita suicide rate of just about anywhere. Like, more kids I went to school with have died of suicide than of everything else put together - something to do with being stranded in the middle of nowhere with easy access to guns, and a knowledge of how to used them. Actually, it's funny that I felt distant to your conversation seeing as one of my old classmates and one of my old teachers have both killed themselves in the past two months.
So, I am concerned but I don't know him well enough to know if he's looking for attention or if he's really, seriously feeling that bad.
― toraneko (toraneko), Thursday, 16 January 2003 10:51 (twenty-three years ago)
― Marcello Carlin, Thursday, 16 January 2003 11:03 (twenty-three years ago)
― toraneko (toraneko), Thursday, 16 January 2003 11:28 (twenty-three years ago)
― Marcello Carlin, Thursday, 16 January 2003 11:39 (twenty-three years ago)
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Thursday, 16 January 2003 11:45 (twenty-three years ago)
this process is healthy: you can put yr args out there. refine them, drop or replace them for better ones.
― Julio Desouza (jdesouza), Thursday, 16 January 2003 12:05 (twenty-three years ago)
San Diego Based Message Board Is Cause for Mass Murder
Arguments on Internet message boards are nothing new, and often are a central component. But in San Diego, California an argument turned deadly on 25 May 2005, resulting in two murders, and two other attempted homicides.
"We've always had a lot of arguments and disputes on this board, but nothing like this, and I really don't think anyone saw it coming," said Radley Pingay, administrator of pirate969.org, in an email response.
"Bruce was always a little hostile, but so many people are like that online, it's hard to tell what's real and what's just shenanigans." Bruce is not only the username of the suspect in the double homicide, but is also his first name.
The online argument started in a thread (link) discussing a local band promoter. Bruce Pastuer, now wanted on two counts of homicide and two counts of assault with a deadly weapon, was one of the participants in the discussion.
Apparently two other board members and Pastuer exchanged insults, at which point Pastuer drove to the home of the two victims at approximately 3:00PM, and shot them both with a borrowed 12 gauge shotgun. The police have not recovered the weapon, and the names of the two victims have not been released pending notification of their relatives.
In the course of the shooting, two neighbors came to investigate, and Pastuer reportedly fired at them as well. His location is unknown, and anyone with information is requested to contact the San Diego Police Department.
― Elvis Telecom (Chris Barrus), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:07 (twenty-one years ago)
If you could enhance 96.9FM...
Shoot Bob Ugly in the face. Increase signal range. Cut out all the talk shows. Cut out all the music shows. Have more live DJs. Have less weird music. Have less mainstream music. Have the FCC shut the station down. Nothing, just keep going. Cut back on the profanity. Crank up the profanity. I'm drunk stop asking questions.
― gygax! (gygax!), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:13 (twenty-one years ago)
― Orbit (Orbit), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:19 (twenty-one years ago)
― Gear! (can Jung shill it, Mu?) (Gear!), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:20 (twenty-one years ago)
― Orbit (Orbit), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:25 (twenty-one years ago)
― ()ops (()()ps), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:25 (twenty-one years ago)
http://www.radpin.com/journal.aspx?storyid=135
― gygax! (gygax!), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:32 (twenty-one years ago)
― Gear! (can Jung shill it, Mu?) (Gear!), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:34 (twenty-one years ago)
― charleston charge (chaki), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:35 (twenty-one years ago)
― Gear! (can Jung shill it, Mu?) (Gear!), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:35 (twenty-one years ago)
― Community Cornerstone (deangulberry), Wednesday, 25 May 2005 22:36 (twenty-one years ago)
― Gear! (can Jung shill it, Mu?) (Gear!), Tuesday, 31 May 2005 07:35 (twenty-one years ago)
anyone ever come across the horror that was alt.music.prince?
― death of tom (death of tom), Tuesday, 31 May 2005 09:46 (twenty-one years ago)
― Ste (Fuzzy), Tuesday, 31 May 2005 09:48 (twenty-one years ago)
― caitlin (caitlin), Tuesday, 31 May 2005 11:44 (twenty-one years ago)