Crushees What Tease and Put You On...C/D?

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I saw this female last night who I've known and had a Godzilla-size crush on for years now (as she has openly admitted to having in return), but hadn't actually seen in quite some time.

So...we're conversatin', chemistry is quite obviously present, we're discussing how we both recently (in the months since we've seen each other) went from amazing shagging-situations to being totally sex-starved, and about how (OH MY GOD!) it's generally so much more fulfilling shagging with someone you know well and are comfortable with and trusting and whatnot...when suddenly, her cell phone rings and she's all "______* is coming, thank god, I NEED TO GET LAID!" and all-of-a-sudden, it's as though I was never there and all we had just talked about didn't mean jack shit!

I guess this isn't really a question, more of a rant...but I'm guessing some of y'all might have some similar experiences, so, er, well...Classic or Dud?

*name withheld to protect the innocent

― nickalicious (nickalicious), Sunday, 12 January 2003 16:02 (twenty-three years ago)

Dud.

― Pashmina (Pashmina), Sunday, 12 January 2003 16:08 (twenty-three years ago)

Clearly, you are the victim of a scenario where the other person has forgotten your gender, and sees you as a confidante rather than a potential partner.

Or else, she really Just. Wants. Sex. and is aware of your crushing status, and fears that you actually want more than she really wants to offer. That can spook a girl off.

Erm... trying to think of similar scenarios I've been in... right now I can't remember, though I know I've been in this situation and it makes you want to shout "Hey! What's wrong with ME!" Oh, wait, YES, I do remember who I was in this situation with, and I can say no more, but yeah, total fucking bummer when the person is encouraging crush to feed their ego yet won't reciprocate. :-(

I haven't had any crushes on actual, available people in a while, popstar crushes are good for preventing them. I've had surprising good luck that people I Just. Want. Sex. with have wanted to have sex with me, though generally, it's not been any more than a one night stand, but hey, them's the breaks. I don't actually want a relationship right now so I'm free of this silliness except random crushes on Roman Historians I can't talk to unless drunk and I don't want to take that any further than crush stage really cause I just want to have a crush to make my brain work better.

― kate, Sunday, 12 January 2003 18:05 (twenty-three years ago)

You obviously got the wrong end of the stick.

― N. (nickdastoor), Monday, 13 January 2003 01:23 (twenty-three years ago)

Or else, she really Just. Wants. Sex. and is aware of your crushing status, and fears that you actually want more than she really wants to offer. That can spook a girl off.

Ouch!! Or else she really doesn't have a crush on you and wanted it to be clear...Crystal even...

― brg30 (brg30), Monday, 13 January 2003 02:26 (twenty-three years ago)

dud. Always made me wanna sing "quit playing games with my heart (or crotch, if case may be)". If someone you want to be "more than friends" with can only see you as a friend, it might do you good to stop being their friend, unless you can really be just that and happy.

― Anthony Miccio (Anthony Miccio), Monday, 13 January 2003 02:31 (twenty-three years ago)

Totally dud.

That reminds me of sixth grade when this kid looked around the room and announced proudly, "I've dated every girl in the class!" Except, of cours, me. This doesn't quite apply because the kid was not good-looking, funny, smart, or nice so I had no crush, but still, what was I, a MOOSE?

― Maria (Maria), Monday, 13 January 2003 03:16 (twenty-three years ago)

6th grade? Like when you're 12?

― bnw (bnw), Monday, 13 January 2003 03:22 (twenty-three years ago)

I think it's CLASSIC 'cause now I am not the only four-eyed gangly tall white loser in the room, in fact, I am comparatively less of a loser because, and serious whoas here dude, that kind of horrid mind-fucking shit hasn't happened to me in, uh, two years?

Hooboy, I needs to get laid.

― Tom Millar (Millar), Monday, 13 January 2003 03:40 (twenty-three years ago)

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