Are You Emo?

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Tom, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

i'm uk garage. but, unfortunately, there seem to be a few emo remixes doing the rounds at the moment. they're unofficial, bootlegs ya hear?

gareth, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I think I'm Bert. Or am I Ernie. Which one has the Rubber Duckie? I don't mind being tickled though.

Pete, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

WILL YOU PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU'RE ON ABOUT?

Does my shouting make me 'emo'?

Nick, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

shh emo dude, you'll wake the neighbours

gareth, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Only if it's whiny shouting.

Richard Tunnicliffe, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Nick, to put you out of your misery, I think what we're talking about are bad US post-hardcore bands who distinguish themselves from the Blink 182s of this world by their heart-on-their-sleeves/feel my pain lyrics. I imagine they sound like some unholy Fugazi/Coldplay pile-up, cos I've only ever come across emo in the pages of Spin. Does that clarify anything???

Mark Morris, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

If it was with the drummer from Econoline, then I wouldn't mind being Emo. Even if only for one night.

Trevor, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Let's see: am I wearing an too-tight white t-shirt? A backpack? Does life seem, like, so simultaneously crushing and beautiful that I just want to burst forth and scream?

Ahh, good, I must not be emo.

Nitsuh, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I don't know, Mark -- you've broken Rule #1 of talking about music: don't dis an entire genre if you've never heard any of it.

Which is not to say that emo as a genre is good. But there are anywhere from 3 to 100 really great emo bands out there, depending on your definition of the term.

Nitsuh, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Does life seem, like, so simultaneously crushing and beautiful that I just want to burst forth and scream?

Life does! But it doesn't make me want to scream. It makes me want to sing beautiful harmonies. I am wearing a tight green T-shirt. Is that emo?

Nick, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Demi-emo. Like en or no or something.

Richard Tunnicliffe, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Are you confusing Emo with Eno? How long before there's an emo band signs up for an Eno collaboration?

Nick, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I was taking n = m/2. You could be two-thirds emo instead, if you'd like.

Richard Tunnicliffe, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

no. it just amuses me to say i am and then list a bunch of obscure 90s noise-rock bands, claim they define emo, and abuse anyone who would rather listen to the get-up kids or the promise ring and think that they're emo. most of the time i just listen to def leppard or something.

sundar subramanian, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I'd rather be half eno, which would make me er. Or ro, with a backwards 'r'

Nick, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Nick, you are a bit like Emo Phillips

nice dropping of an hmhb reference too

cabbage, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

stop trying to get out of it, Emo Dude

gareth, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Nick: If singing your beautiful harmonies moves you to weep, you are emo. Purchase black-rimmed glasses now and release a 7ยดยด with a B&W cover photo of power lines or the view down a railroad track.

Actually, from what I remember of your photo you may be Conor Oberst.

scott p, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Nitsuh - rockwrite rules are made to be broken! I KNOW Emo sucks after hearing Jeff Buckley, Coldplay, Radiohead, Starsailor and other sensitive simpering goons - don't need to familiarise myself with their fellow travelers, thanks...

Andrew L, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

OK, so I look up who this man is and find this. There is no resemblance whatsoever. And I would never write a line like "I'm standing on a bridge in the town where I lived as a kid with my mom and my brothers/ And then the bridge disappears/ And I'm standing on air/ With nothing holding me,"

Anyway, he's not wearing a tight white T-shirt, a backpack or black-rimmed spectacles. I think this emo thing is more complicated than you've been making out

Nick, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Where's the diary thread for top Emo Dastoor action?

Tom, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Thing is Nitsuh, I was just trying to help Nick out of his confusion. It's not my fault I've never heard The Promise Ring or whoever: they're not very big over here and anyway I only consume music via MTV UK and The Box. Anyway, back in the days when I was a pop journalist, I never let ignorance stand between me and an opinion...

Mark Morris, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Shut up Tom, that's different. And I was only 16. It wasn't till I was 17 that I became the man I am today.

Nick, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

boy child mustn't tremble 'cos he came without a name...

fred solinger, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Bright Eyes not emo!! Get Up Kids = emo!

Sarah, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Sarah just because you like something doesn't mean it isn't Emo. You like Feeder = you have Emo germs.

Tom, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

bright eyes = just terrible. emo = people who thought "there's no movement in a bad mouth" meant something and wrote long, tear-stained letters to maximumrocknroll about it.

your null fame, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Nick I will eat your emo

Mike Hanle y, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Emo: We like to wear hooded caps, oh yes we do.

nathalie, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Ah, fellow Bright Eyes haters in the house! This is a GOOD THING. Ever since I saw them I have taken to describing Bright Eyes as "Emo you Black Emperor!"

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Is Straight Edge the same as Emo? I am just average.

jel, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I'm all for having your Emo moments, but generally frown upon the lifestyle. People -- great people -- get laser surgery so they don't have to wear glasses. Is Nick Emo? I don't know.

JM, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Oh wait! When I was about 15, I wrote a song called "emotional cripple"..."I can't take this anymore, so far from what I truly feel, emotional, EMOTIONAL CRIPPLE!!!"...So, hmmm, yeah!

jel, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Bright Eyes = awful. When I saw them live (by accident) Oberst did look a bit more like Nick than he does in that photo. I think it was the fringe that did it.

Where exactly do the boundaries of emo lie anyway? Do Fugazi count? The Dismemberment Plan? Les Savy Fav? Drive Like Jehu? I like all four of them and am worried that they might be lumped in with The Promise Ring et al.

Richard Tunnicliffe, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Bright Eyes hatas in dis house / If you see 'em point 'em out!

Erm, Nick if you did write like that you'd be the toast of Champaign/Urbana! Seriously, no offense meant, as much as I dislike the Fireside Bowl/emo bands/"scene"* I wish I had the soft femme features of C.O.

* But I do own a pair of black-rimmed glasses and tight t-shirts, live in the Midwest, listen to the Dismemberment Plan! Help!

scott p., Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY EVERYONE ON THIS BOARD IS SO DOWN ON EMO. Ahem. But like, intrinsically, what is wrong with singing agonised relationship songs? That is totally what I would do if I had a band. And also why I don't have a band, thus perhaps answering my question.

I always think of Emo as sounding a bit like Seamonsters by The Wedding Present, but it probably doesn't.

Tom, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

It bugs me becuase it seems to be, socially, not too far removed from Twee.... I like the Get Up Kids tho.

JM, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

There's nothing wrong with singing agonised relationship songs per se, it's just the style of the songs that's wrong.

Richard Tunnicliffe, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

A fair amount of sensitive tortured souls in the early nineties in America were open and rabid Weddoes fans, Tom, so you're not too far off the mark. Sadly, I think the current crop's idea of sensitive tortured romance doesn't really account for that.

I like the Dismemberment Plan and the Get-Up Kids don't bother me either.

Ned Raggett, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I think Im half emo, or maybe a quarter. Or maybe just emo- by-association..

turner, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I have an emo album...The Van Pelt "Sultans of Sentiment"...their lyrics aren't about r'ships, they seem kinda issued based thrash metal style!

jel, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Yeah, Jimmy speaks truth. It's not as much the music (although there are innumerable awful emo bands, as any genre) as the scene. Over-earnestness + infantalism (although many of the emo kids really are weedy 16-year-olds) + too-strict adherance to/concern with purity/indie "doctrines" = ugh. Tom: I imagine that this may be one of those US/UK social schisms where lack of exposure to the, IMHO, worst elements of something helps color in a poor light. Are there "emo kids" in the UK? Is there a London version of Chicago's Fireside Bowl or wherever emo ground zero is in D.C. or Champaign/Urbana?

And like anything, people seem more accustomed to kick against a "scene" that they see elements of themselves in but don't want to be associated with as a shortcut for describing their sensibilites, etc. Lots of us have done in this thread and others with bands we like. And I know I've cringed at the thought of being able to be described as an "indie boy" or a Belle and Sebastian fan and have the connotations of either ring true or, worse, be able to be reduced to either tag.

scott p., Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Stereotypical emo = old-school Superchunk with no balls and high- school poetic pretentions up the wazoo. Singing about breaking up with girlfriends in drive-ins and not having enough money to buy gas to drive home because the Pinto has shit mileage and she's leaving for college and I have acne and I'm not cool enough for all my friends and LIFE'S NOT FAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That said, sometimes that's a good thing to hear.

People need to stop calling any band that shows a predilection for screaming and using guitars "emo", though. Emo != indie rock (which most of the bands noted above would sorta qualify as), and "emo" is more of a nonsensical bullshit term than "indie rock" anyway. Not as bullshit as "punk rock", of course.

And guilt by association re: genres is so pointless. Otherwise, I'd be dumping my Tribe and De La and Wu-Tang CDs, thanks to Hammer and Vanilla Ice and P. Diddy and lord knows who else...

David Raposa, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

guilt by association re: genres is so pointless

Naturally, but I wasn't talking about the music.

scott p, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Nick I ate your emo

Mike Hanle y, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Well, Scott, if you weren't posting at the same time that I was, perhaps I would've DISCUSSED the social aspect of the question. Next time, try and be a bit more considerate, puh-leeze. (Insert wink here to denote a joke.)

Actually, my original post had some comments about fashion choices made by "emo" fans and such things, but deleted them since I realized that I was (superficially) describing some of my friends. It's a sticky wicket, and I don't feel confident going off and railing against a sub-culture which might have good things to offer to those inside its walls. But, then, I just called the people that live in my state "screwed up", so I'm full of it.

David Raposa, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Damn: you Brits wouldn't know emo if it jumped up and down on your bed crying on the sheets and playing guitar octaves. :) Apparently we've found a genre that "just didn't translate." Like this:

I KNOW Emo sucks after hearing Jeff Buckley, Coldplay, Radiohead, Starsailor and other sensitive simpering goons - don't need to familiarise myself with their fellow travelers, thanks...

No possible definition of "emo" encompasses anything anywhere close to anything listed above. In the least. The above is like saying "I know hip-hop sucks after hearing the Dixie Chicks."

Bright Eyes aren't really emo either. They fulfill a few characteristics: (1) must be from Wisconsin, Illinois, or somewhere in the Kansas/Nebraska area, and (2) singy/screamy "I'm having a little breakdown here," but in a very "I'm not trying to imply that I could kick your ass because I am actually skinny frail and upset" kind of way. Other than that: not so emo.

If you want to get a lock on the only thing that everyone agrees is emo -- the thing that sort of spurred people to even start saying "emo" -- the thing that explains how "emo" went from meaning bands like Mineral to meaning bands like the Get Up Kids -- it's Cap'N Jazz. Buy "Analphabetapolothology." Then stop ragging on Joan of Arc.

And if you want a record that completely typifies everything that the word "emo" can safely imply, get Luck of Aleia's self-titled EP.

Nitsuh, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

Maybe we should have UK Emo, like we've got a better sort of Garage.

Tom, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

I think you've got it, Tom.

I'll put together a comp tonight. You just keep talking about it on NYLPM and saying that UK emo is the greatest, freshest thing to come along in decades. We can get an NME cover within the fortnight.

Nitsuh, Thursday, 30 August 2001 00:00 (twenty-four years ago)

At what point did emo go from geeks in corduroy and gas station jackets to this neo-goth thing? It still doesn't make any sense that they were called the same thing.

burt_stanton, Thursday, 29 May 2008 14:53 (eighteen years ago)

corduroy and gas station jackets

How is this emo to begin with??

Laurel, Thursday, 29 May 2008 14:58 (eighteen years ago)

It's the shit I saw when I'd be at mid-late 90s Get Up Kids/Saves the Day billings at the local firehouse. I'm not talking about that 80s hardcore stuff.

burt_stanton, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:00 (eighteen years ago)

I'm talking about Vulcan haircuts and sunglasses at night and white belts in 1998. Maybe that was the urban face of emo, though.

Laurel, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:02 (eighteen years ago)

I'll back Stanton up here on the gas-station jackets. I didn't start seeing white belts until this decade.

kingkongvsgodzilla, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:03 (eighteen years ago)

I've never actually been an emo, whatever the dress code.

kingkongvsgodzilla, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:04 (eighteen years ago)

I'm talking about Vulcan haircuts and sunglasses at night and white belts in 1998. Maybe that was the urban face of emo, though.

-- Laurel, Thursday, May 29, 2008 3:02 PM (4 minutes ago) Bookmark Link

the make-up were emo?

bell_labs, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:06 (eighteen years ago)

A huge chunk of those emo bands came from where I'm talking about. I remember white belts being considered the ... fashionista scenester kinda thing, like mall hardcore or something.

burt_stanton, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:06 (eighteen years ago)

I laff now to think there was a time when we called them the white-belt crowd and eventually people started saying "emo" and it was like finally putting a name to a face.

I dunno, labs, but it was a Mooney Suzuki show! Hahaha.

Laurel, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:07 (eighteen years ago)

fashionista scenester kinda thing

Yeah, that's what I meant by being the urban face.

Laurel, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:07 (eighteen years ago)

the mooney suzuki were definitely not emo and neither were the delta 72

bell_labs, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:08 (eighteen years ago)

I'm talking about the urban face here-Northeast NJ/NYC. Are you talking about Boston or something?

burt_stanton, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:10 (eighteen years ago)

i definitely have a strong association of vulcan haircuts and boston

bell_labs, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:11 (eighteen years ago)

No, NYC here. I didn't know any hardcore people/bands at the time, we needed something to call the not-quite-mod revival that had glammed everything up and added studded belts.

Laurel, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:11 (eighteen years ago)

And white headbands.

Laurel, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:13 (eighteen years ago)

i have worn white belts in nyc in 1998
i have also worn all white with a black belt

bell_labs, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:14 (eighteen years ago)

in 2001 a shiny silver member's only jacket was worn by me in nyc

bell_labs, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:15 (eighteen years ago)

kekekekeekeke

Laurel, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:15 (eighteen years ago)

it was around 2000 that i embraced kneesocks and sweater vests
god save us from nyu students

bell_labs, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:17 (eighteen years ago)

The Almighty Wikipedia sez:

Emo is also often associated with a certain fashion. The term "emo" is sometimes stereotyped with tight jeans on males and females alike, long fringe (bangs) brushed to one side of the face or over one or both eyes, dyed black, straight hair, tight t-shirts (sometimes short sleeved) which often bear the names of rock bands (or other designer shirts), studded belts, belt buckles, canvas sneakers or skate shoes or other black shoes (often old and beaten up) and thick, black horn-rimmed glasses. Emo fashion has changed with time. Early trends included straight, unparted hair, tightly fitting sweaters, button-down shirts, and work jackets.

Last sentence is what Burt's talking about and definitely what I associated with emo (along with threadbare thrift-store tees and nerdy glasses) ca. 1997-2000.

jaymc, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:17 (eighteen years ago)

I'll back Stanton up here on the gas-station jackets.

Me too esp when talking about the bands/time frame referenced.

ENBB, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:19 (eighteen years ago)

Jaymc otm.

ENBB, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:19 (eighteen years ago)

Seventeen magazine, August 2002:

http://bieniosek.com/gallery/albums/album36/emo.sized.gif

jaymc, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:23 (eighteen years ago)

Discman!

ENBB, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:24 (eighteen years ago)

Hot Water Music vs. My Chemical Romance

kingkongvsgodzilla, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:27 (eighteen years ago)

Yeah, the CDs on that girl's Discman are indicative that this was around the time that "emo" had attracted enough mainstream attention to land Dashboard Confessional on the cover of SPIN but before it had turned into some nu-goth thing.

jaymc, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:29 (eighteen years ago)

Does anyone remember seeing screamo whitebelt hipsters sporting sweatbands at all? I only saw it like three times and was like "oh no, worst new trend", but then I just never saw it again. Every instance was at a show booked by $t3ve from 1n1t R3kords, though I can't remember what bands. Late '90s / early '00s hardcore shite before it went all Isis.

Just kinda wondered if these were some weird isolated incidents.

RabiesAngentleman, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:40 (eighteen years ago)

http://i29.photobucket.com/albums/c287/expatrica/promisering.jpg

Promise Ring GIS yields lots of creepy Christian crap these days.

ENBB, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:41 (eighteen years ago)

I feel like the dudes out of Blood Brothers were the sweatband types.

ENBB, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:42 (eighteen years ago)

That makes sense in my head, too, though I can think of no actual sightings.

RabiesAngentleman, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:46 (eighteen years ago)

People who wear sweat bands are gamers who have like 1-up & triforce tats & c.

Abbott, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:47 (eighteen years ago)

Or, evidently, they're in a band called Wipe Your Eyes And Face The Day or something.

RabiesAngentleman, Thursday, 29 May 2008 15:51 (eighteen years ago)

the current definition of emo (neogoth bullshit) makes more sense than any of the earlier trends

abanana, Thursday, 29 May 2008 16:02 (eighteen years ago)

Is that the new definition? What neogoth bullshit exactly? I live in a vacuum and don't notice um...most things.

RabiesAngentleman, Thursday, 29 May 2008 16:05 (eighteen years ago)

Don't laugh but I think I might have written something abt it in '96 when emo was still "emotional punk".

suzy, Thursday, 29 May 2008 17:03 (eighteen years ago)

I assume someone has used the headline "Punk and Emotional" at some point in the last 10 years? (This will make more sense if you're British)

Tom D., Thursday, 29 May 2008 17:05 (eighteen years ago)

... actually that makes no sense whatever your nationality <---- tired and unemotional

Tom D., Thursday, 29 May 2008 17:09 (eighteen years ago)

Last night I read that Spin article about the anti-emo attacks (wtf) in Mexico and still have no idea what the hell was going on there.

mh, Thursday, 29 May 2008 17:33 (eighteen years ago)

when i was going to shows in new brunswick during high school anyone wearing the current emo uniform would have been laughed at. in retrospect i think the new emos are much better dressed than we ever were!

max, Thursday, 29 May 2008 17:47 (eighteen years ago)

New Brunswick

burt_stanton, Thursday, 29 May 2008 18:02 (eighteen years ago)

I think the kids are just adorable.

Abbott, Thursday, 29 May 2008 18:05 (eighteen years ago)

At least they have some distinctive style. When I was in highschool in the late 90s everything was pretty much bleeeeeeech.

burt_stanton, Thursday, 29 May 2008 18:06 (eighteen years ago)

For real!

Abbott, Thursday, 29 May 2008 18:08 (eighteen years ago)

Yeah, grunge has a lot to answer for.

Laurel, Thursday, 29 May 2008 18:50 (eighteen years ago)

the late 90s was a cross section of horrors.

burt_stanton, Thursday, 29 May 2008 18:58 (eighteen years ago)

two years pass...

emu

Auto Mall Maniac (kkvgz), Tuesday, 14 December 2010 14:40 (fifteen years ago)

one year passes...
two years pass...

well, are you?

hey girl, come on and take a whirl in my (Treeship), Thursday, 15 May 2014 04:46 (twelve years ago)

In temperament if not in fashion yes

calstars, Thursday, 15 May 2014 07:21 (twelve years ago)

:( at the last revive.

how's life, Thursday, 15 May 2014 09:42 (twelve years ago)


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