― Graham (graham), Friday, 7 February 2003 14:10 (twenty-three years ago)
― chris (chris), Friday, 7 February 2003 14:13 (twenty-three years ago)
― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Friday, 7 February 2003 14:32 (twenty-three years ago)
Is it acceptable to say hello to people you don't know but see frequently in public places? Or is that weird?
― nickie (nickie), Friday, 7 February 2003 14:35 (twenty-three years ago)
― Nick Southall (Nick Southall), Friday, 7 February 2003 14:38 (twenty-three years ago)
― nickie (nickie), Friday, 7 February 2003 14:43 (twenty-three years ago)
― nickie (nickie), Friday, 7 February 2003 14:44 (twenty-three years ago)
― smee (smee), Friday, 7 February 2003 14:45 (twenty-three years ago)
It also means that you're not obliged to talk to someone you don't like, but you haven't been rude by not acknowledging their presence.
― Mark C (Mark C), Friday, 7 February 2003 16:39 (twenty-three years ago)
― I'm Passing Open Windows (Ms Laura), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:03 (twenty-three years ago)
i like simply smiling or saying hi and then moving on.
― fiona (fiona), Friday, 7 February 2003 17:08 (twenty-three years ago)
I used to think about this quite a bit. At work, I usually say "hi" and smile, or "how's it going" without a question mark, or just smile, usually making extremlely brief eye contact while doing so and them immediately turn my gaze DIRECTLY AT THE GROUND. This is intended to send a message that I wish them well but I'm not going to pounce upon them to demand time or affection they are not willing to give at that exact moment. If someone starts chatting to me when it's inconvenient, I get up and go to the bathroom.
The different between work "hi" and a friendly "hi" to someone I would actually like to talk to would be that I would not break off eye contact so suddenly. I know, it's right out of Animal Planet.
― felicity (felicity), Friday, 7 February 2003 21:20 (twenty-three years ago)
But a lot depends on the size of the office and nature of the work, I think. At my old job, we were constantly moving about the office from floor-to-floor, and the company itself was rather small, so the odds of passing the same person in the hallways and stairwells multiple times each day were rather high. So I didn't feel the need to go into a whole "how are you?"-type greeting, esp. after the third time running into someone on any given day.
― Jen (nstop), Friday, 7 February 2003 21:45 (twenty-three years ago)
― Jen (nstop), Friday, 7 February 2003 21:47 (twenty-three years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Friday, 7 February 2003 23:14 (twenty-three years ago)
― jel -- (jel), Friday, 7 February 2003 23:16 (twenty-three years ago)