Also while on this previous job, her mother passed away. It was a terrible thing for her, obviously and I'm sympathetic. HOWEVER, everything that happened at the previous job (i.e. her being caught surfing the web instead of working) was chalked up by herself to "dealing with my mom's business" and that sort of thing.
Another co-worker of mine who started last week had to leave her position because her grandfather passed away and she had to go back east for a couple of weeks. In a meeting, this girl brings up that fact and asks "should we send her a card?" We all agreed we should, and then she goes on about how her mother died and it was rough on her, getting the sympathy vote. There were a few murmured "oh I'm sorry to hear that" responses, which apparently wasn't enough, because after the meeting was over she was over to my supervising producer here and again asked about the card for the co-worker, then five seconds into it started going on about her late mother and blah blah blah.
Okay, this girl is very NICE. She "goes out of her way" to be nice. She's trying to project this reassuring hippie-earth mother sort of thing. But she's also clearly INSANE, because she doesn't do any work, and she hangs onto jobs at this company because she keeps busting out the sob stories and "connecting" with people who hold sway over her job security by being very nice and very "open" and telling them these stories.
It pisses me off because it's abundantly clear to me that she's been using this tragedy in her life as an assist in her career, and it pissed me off more that she used this other co-worker's tragedy as a way to ingratiate herself in a not-so-subtle way with the higher-ups on THIS show. Because she NEVER talked about her mother unless it was being used in a situation other people would normally a) make lame "car broke down, sorry I'm late this morning" excuses or b) she was trying to make herself "known".
fuck, I hate that shit.
― Gear! (Gear!), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 05:08 (twenty-one years ago)
― Gear! (Gear!), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 19:22 (twenty-one years ago)
― hstencil (hstencil), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 19:23 (twenty-one years ago)
― R.I.M.A. (Barima), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 19:26 (twenty-one years ago)
It bugs me out because me and a couple other people can see what she's doing but everyone else is fooled, it seems. She tries to pull the same shit on me (friendly w/tales of woe) and I think I come across as the asshole because I'm not all "oh how horrible, sorry sorry sorry". It's not like I say "Drag. Hey, get me some coffee" but you know...
― Gear! (Gear!), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 19:38 (twenty-one years ago)
― dyson (dyson), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 20:00 (twenty-one years ago)
I told someone on the previous job about how she did that, and as I said to him "I know she's been through a lot, I don't want to see her get in trouble, I just want people to know I did my work and then some." He agreed with me, but I still think I made myself look back by trying to cover my back in that way.
― Gear! (Gear!), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 20:06 (twenty-one years ago)
― weasel diesel (K1l14n), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 20:11 (twenty-one years ago)
― Gear! (Gear!), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 20:16 (twenty-one years ago)
― benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:39 (nineteen years ago)
― benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:42 (nineteen years ago)
― Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:43 (nineteen years ago)
― benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:44 (nineteen years ago)
― RJG (RJG), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:44 (nineteen years ago)
― benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:45 (nineteen years ago)
― Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:46 (nineteen years ago)
Unless...THEY R SAME
― ;_; (blueski), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:48 (nineteen years ago)
― benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:49 (nineteen years ago)
Though I must say, my coworkers entertained me this morning with a fake musical about how much they love maths. Sometimes I truly love this job!
― Going Through The Motions (kate), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:50 (nineteen years ago)
I imagine that's your general view of humanity.
― Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:55 (nineteen years ago)
― benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:57 (nineteen years ago)
― ;_; (blueski), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:59 (nineteen years ago)
― Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 26 October 2006 11:19 (nineteen years ago)
i hate when my co workers call me, leave a voicemail - which is huge hassle to check - and the voicemail just says "please call me"we use instant messenger here as well as email - just use one of those to tell me to call you goddammit!!!!!!!
his punishment will be I will not call
― Brian Eno's Mother (Latham Green), Wednesday, 5 March 2014 16:37 (twelve years ago)