Yet another lame co-worker

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So I just started this second job a couple of weeks ago and it turns out that a girl who is working the day shift is one who falsified records at another job I had at this same company, in order to make it appear as though she'd done slightly more week than myself even though she missed a shitload of time. (these numbers won't mean much but I did something like 1500 records, some other guy did 400, and she did 350, then switched things up in the database because she knows Filemaker and gave herself 1100 and me about 1000) She spent most of her time on the internet dealing with her music career.

Also while on this previous job, her mother passed away. It was a terrible thing for her, obviously and I'm sympathetic. HOWEVER, everything that happened at the previous job (i.e. her being caught surfing the web instead of working) was chalked up by herself to "dealing with my mom's business" and that sort of thing.

Another co-worker of mine who started last week had to leave her position because her grandfather passed away and she had to go back east for a couple of weeks. In a meeting, this girl brings up that fact and asks "should we send her a card?" We all agreed we should, and then she goes on about how her mother died and it was rough on her, getting the sympathy vote. There were a few murmured "oh I'm sorry to hear that" responses, which apparently wasn't enough, because after the meeting was over she was over to my supervising producer here and again asked about the card for the co-worker, then five seconds into it started going on about her late mother and blah blah blah.

Okay, this girl is very NICE. She "goes out of her way" to be nice. She's trying to project this reassuring hippie-earth mother sort of thing. But she's also clearly INSANE, because she doesn't do any work, and she hangs onto jobs at this company because she keeps busting out the sob stories and "connecting" with people who hold sway over her job security by being very nice and very "open" and telling them these stories.

It pisses me off because it's abundantly clear to me that she's been using this tragedy in her life as an assist in her career, and it pissed me off more that she used this other co-worker's tragedy as a way to ingratiate herself in a not-so-subtle way with the higher-ups on THIS show. Because she NEVER talked about her mother unless it was being used in a situation other people would normally a) make lame "car broke down, sorry I'm late this morning" excuses or b) she was trying to make herself "known".

fuck, I hate that shit.

Gear! (Gear!), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 05:08 (twenty-one years ago)

(maybe I'm the asshole here)

Gear! (Gear!), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 19:22 (twenty-one years ago)

didn't seem like it, but I dunno.

hstencil (hstencil), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 19:23 (twenty-one years ago)

On the one hand, she DOES sound disgusting. I lost my step-gran this year, but I never wanted or tried to use it as a manouevering tool at work.

R.I.M.A. (Barima), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 19:26 (twenty-one years ago)

I remember when my grandfather died while I was at school, I was talking to a professor about a two-day delay on a project I was working on, because of this fact, just explaining it, and I felt shitty afterwards, because I felt I'd used it as an excuse, even though it was the true reason. Since then I've never brought that sort of thing up anywhere.

It bugs me out because me and a couple other people can see what she's doing but everyone else is fooled, it seems. She tries to pull the same shit on me (friendly w/tales of woe) and I think I come across as the asshole because I'm not all "oh how horrible, sorry sorry sorry". It's not like I say "Drag. Hey, get me some coffee" but you know...

Gear! (Gear!), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 19:38 (twenty-one years ago)

me grandma died a few months ago - i was the lone designer at the office for the week as a bunch of people were on vacation. i worked from home that one afternoon and after that i was right back in the office. i've been criticized my a lot of my friends for being a very cold person but i can understand when people have a hard time dealing with these things. seriously, gear - if i were in your shoes i probably wouldn't be nearly as pleasant as i'm sure you're being.

dyson (dyson), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 20:00 (twenty-one years ago)

It was one of those things that I thought only I noticed, but as my last job ended a friend of mine came on. After he met this girl, he came up to me and said "she's definitely insane", and this was before I told him about the falsified records.

I told someone on the previous job about how she did that, and as I said to him "I know she's been through a lot, I don't want to see her get in trouble, I just want people to know I did my work and then some." He agreed with me, but I still think I made myself look back by trying to cover my back in that way.

Gear! (Gear!), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 20:06 (twenty-one years ago)

this co-worker sounds tolerable enough

weasel diesel (K1l14n), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 20:11 (twenty-one years ago)

she doesn't share a small office with me and constantly stare at me, but still...

Gear! (Gear!), Tuesday, 17 August 2004 20:16 (twenty-one years ago)

two years pass...
NO, john reid would NOT be a good prime minister. "charismatic"? are you off your fucking meds?

benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:39 (nineteen years ago)

oh fucking hell no, no, no, you are all fucking idiots. "at least thatcher stood for something". "we started sucking up to america in the 80s".

benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:42 (nineteen years ago)

??????????????????????????????????

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:43 (nineteen years ago)

you only say hilarity clinstone would be a good president because she's the only dem you've heard of.

benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:44 (nineteen years ago)

hahaha yes how odd they pronounce it "co-lin".

benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:44 (nineteen years ago)

try "can we try not to try talking about things, please?"

RJG (RJG), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:44 (nineteen years ago)

charles kennedy and churchill -- both liked the sauce.

benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:45 (nineteen years ago)

There might be a couple of free beds at the Maudsley just now.

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:46 (nineteen years ago)

RTS: Rumpsy's cow-orkers vs Benrique's cow-orkers

Unless...THEY R SAME

;_; (blueski), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:48 (nineteen years ago)

my new co-worker is ok but she's off today. the rest are morons.

benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:49 (nineteen years ago)

This is what headphones were invented for.

Though I must say, my coworkers entertained me this morning with a fake musical about how much they love maths. Sometimes I truly love this job!

Going Through The Motions (kate), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:50 (nineteen years ago)

the rest are morons.

I imagine that's your general view of humanity.

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:55 (nineteen years ago)

i call em how i see em -- ie no.

benrique (Enrique), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:57 (nineteen years ago)

http://www.sbceo.k12.ca.us/~vms/carlton/spartacus.jpg

;_; (blueski), Thursday, 26 October 2006 10:59 (nineteen years ago)

I am VAN GO, GODAMMIT!

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 26 October 2006 11:19 (nineteen years ago)

seven years pass...

i hate when my co workers call me, leave a voicemail - which is huge hassle to check - and the voicemail just says "please call me"
we use instant messenger here as well as email - just use one of those to tell me to call you goddammit!!!!!!!

his punishment will be I will not call

Brian Eno's Mother (Latham Green), Wednesday, 5 March 2014 16:37 (twelve years ago)


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