im crap at pulling in clubs, dont like dancing anymore

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i used to like dancing, but only in the slightly vaguely ironic attempt at it to show that i wasnt actually trying to genuinely show i was dancing. okay, i did used to have a few okay-ish cool steps and things to do (not to mention by quite shockingly brilliant array of 80s dance routines, albeit again, delivered in slightly ironic fashion with a discreet smirk), but these days, i loathe it. this might be because my friends insist on taking me to venues where only the cheesiest and overtly familar R&B/pop hits make it into the DJ's collection, but maybe not.

the thing i dont tend to like about clubbing these days is my mounting self consciousness and claustrophobia. it might also be the simple fact that i dont feel the need to go out on the pull anymore as im in a relationship, or the fact that im pretty fucking dire at pulling in clubs in the first place..... i hate having to shout down someones ear who i dont know.

― unsociableperson, Monday, 17 January 2005 15:41 (twenty-one years ago)

Bez?

― mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 17 January 2005 15:43 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't go dancing anymore - in fact, I never went dancing in the first place. It doesn't mean you're a weirdo, it just means you're GETTING OLD no not really, it just means you can't be arsed with all that palaver.

― Johnney B (Johnney B), Monday, 17 January 2005 15:48 (twenty-one years ago)

Yes, unfortunately you are a Grade A Weirdo. Everyone is allowed to be themselves and have their own personal likes and dislikes EXCEPT when it comes to this.
The good news is that the market price for a lobotomy is lower than it's ever been.

― 00ps, Monday, 17 January 2005 15:54 (twenty-one years ago)

Yeah the other options are bars where the music is so loud you must shout to be heard, or old man pubs.

Get used to it.

― Jarlr'mai (jarlrmai), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:25 (twenty-one years ago)

go to clubs with better music. stand around, have a pint or four. sooner or later the booze will erode your self consciousness, and you will start dancing. forcing yourself to dance, routines, "cool steps" or what have you = dud.

― :| (....), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:51 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't like dancing any more either :(

― Markelby (Mark C), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:10 (twenty-one years ago)

I HATE CLUBBING

― dog latin (dog latin), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:54 (twenty-one years ago)

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im crap at pulling in clubs, dont like dancing anymore - am i a weirdo?