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BIRMINGHAM, Alabama (AP) -- A woman angry with her 12-year-old daughter for having sex forced the girl to drink bleach and sat on her until the child died, a police detective said.

The girl's 9-year-old brother was forced to watch the attack, Detective Warren Cotton testified Thursday in a preliminary hearing for Tunisia Archie, 31.

Archie is charged with capital murder in the asphyxiation death of her daughter Jasmine. If convicted, she could be sentenced to death or life in prison without parole.

Cotton said Archie, who has been jailed without bond since shortly after her daughter's Nov. 26 death, told authorities she was disturbed because "her daughter told her that she was no longer a virgin."

She said she poured bleach into Jasmine's mouth and the child vomited, he said, then sat on her until she stopped breathing, Cotton testified.

Archie forced Jasmine's 9-year-old brother Jacorey to watch the attack and "told him that if he shed a tear that she was going to kill him, too," Cotton testified.

ppp, Monday, 17 January 2005 16:07 (twenty-one years ago)

don't tell us this shit.

Pears can just fuck right off. (kenan), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Oh yeh, that's why I hate people.

Johnney B (Johnney B), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:09 (twenty-one years ago)

fuck

lukey (Lukey G), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:15 (twenty-one years ago)

whoa.

Emilymv (Emilymv), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:19 (twenty-one years ago)

Well, that'll teach her then, won't it.

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:21 (twenty-one years ago)

why the hell would a 12 yr old agree to drink bleach?

Emilymv (Emilymv), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:23 (twenty-one years ago)

she poured bleach into Jasmine's mouth

Pears can just fuck right off. (kenan), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:35 (twenty-one years ago)

oh for fuck's sake...that's monstrous

Matt (Matt), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:38 (twenty-one years ago)

How did that even cross her mind?
"oh let's teach her a lesson, pour some bleach into her mouth. that'll purify her!"

stevie nixed (stevie nixed), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:39 (twenty-one years ago)

See, this is why I can't totally abandon the death penalty.

I Am Curious (George) (Rock Hardy), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:49 (twenty-one years ago)

OTM, in fact I think she'd be my one exception.

Hurting (Hurting), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:52 (twenty-one years ago)

You are assuming she'd face it. As opposed to 'diminished responsibiliy' etc.

mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:52 (twenty-one years ago)

See, this is why I can't totally abandon the death penalty.
-- I Am Curious (George) (crumpw@bellsouth.net), January 17th, 2005 11:49 AM.

OTM, in fact I think she'd be my one exception.
-- Hurting (Hurtingchie...), January 17th, 2005 11:52 AM.

Why is that? Why is this case more deserving than someone who beats someone to death over his wallet? Is it because it's a child or because it's in today's news?

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:55 (twenty-one years ago)

Do most states but the mentally ill to death? Because, I mean, clearly...

Huk-L, Monday, 17 January 2005 16:58 (twenty-one years ago)

exactly my point.

The death penalty would continue to be used on
1) black men who kill cops (guaranteed)
2) Mass murds
3) People that are covered by the press as 'the face of satan' and so on.

mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 17 January 2005 16:59 (twenty-one years ago)

no, if it is legally proven that the person is mentally ill. but commiting such a crime doesn't make that a given.

probably because it is a child. i am against the death penalty but in cases like this i certainly wouldn't protest the execution. also for some reason when parents kill their children the reaction is more bloodthirsty and visceral than reasoned and logical. we all want to see them suffer for commiting crimes that seem to be a total affront to society. same would go for child molestation, etc.

Emilymv (Emilymv), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:01 (twenty-one years ago)

total affront to society
Unlike beating someone to death over money.

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:02 (twenty-one years ago)

I can't help feeling that killing cops is, in some tiny way, morally less of a crime than killing ordinary people. The cops are the enemy to criminals, and often get in their way. The perp becomes desperate, or treats the cop as an obstacle rather than a person. And the cop knows the risks.

WHICH IS IN NO WAY AT ALL TO JUSTIFY OR CONDONE OR SANCTION COPKILLING OKAY

Markelby (Mark C), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:03 (twenty-one years ago)

Save it for SVU, Ice-T.

Huk-L, Monday, 17 January 2005 17:04 (twenty-one years ago)

People who say that they're against the death penalty EXCEPT in cases of whatever aren't too much different from people who say that they're against abortion EXCEPT in cases of rape and incest, etc. It really seems like one should be either for or against it -- period. Not a lot of middle ground when it comes to death.

Pleasant Plains /// (Pleasant Plains ///), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:06 (twenty-one years ago)

WHOA! Xpost!

The position of killing a cop is meant to be More reprehensable as the man is acting on our behalf to stop/prevent crime, and as a representative of the people should expect more protection.

I agree, except I don't think making the punishment for cop killing more severe gives them any more protection, and in any case is just wrong anyway.

mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:07 (twenty-one years ago)

xpost - Indeed. I would not want the death penalty here myself, and neither would I in just about any other case I could think of (I freely admit the death of a relative or a close friend at the hands of someone else would be a strong test of this, hopefully one I will never have to face).

Ned Raggett (Ned), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:08 (twenty-one years ago)

For me, this is the telling detail:
Archie forced Jasmine's 9-year-old brother Jacorey to watch the attack and "told him that if he shed a tear that she was going to kill him, too," Cotton testified.

An insanity plea is going to have a hard time getting around that part, I think.

I Am Curious (George) (Rock Hardy), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:09 (twenty-one years ago)

How come you never see stories like this about people named Pamela, Michael and Tiffany?

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:14 (twenty-one years ago)

See, this is why I can't totally abandon the death penalty.
-- I Am Curious (George) ([email protected]), January 17th, 2005 11:49 AM.
OTM, in fact I think she'd be my one exception.
-- Hurting (Hurtingchie...), January 17th, 2005 11:52 AM.

all she did was imposed the death penalty on her daughter you know.

ken c (ken c), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:15 (twenty-one years ago)

I think the death penalty is an appropriate measure in certain cases. Tim McVeigh, for instance, who was proud of what he did up to the time of his execution - who never showed remorse - I think we're all better off without him. Of course, proving remorse -vs- no remorse would be difficult .. and how long do we wait for the signs of remorse to show up before we execute? So, I'm not totally against it, but I think it needs to be used only rarely - and never used when there is any doubt about the guilt.

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:17 (twenty-one years ago)

murdering your own child is a total affront to society in a way that murdering someone for money or killing a policeman is not. it goes against the mores of almost every human society that has ever existed and goes against human nature and one's evolutionary urges to produce and protect genetic offspring.

for the record, i would like to state that i am not in favor of the death penalty even in cases like this. but these are the ones that give me pause for thought, while others don't.

Emilymv (Emilymv), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:18 (twenty-one years ago)

I am as appalled by someone who would murder a stranger as I am by someone who would murder her own child.

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:21 (twenty-one years ago)

and never used when there is any doubt about the guilt. "

Every murderer that's convicted is done so "Beyond all reasonable doubt"...

mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:24 (twenty-one years ago)

hm, i think that would put you in the minority dave. do you have children?

Emilymv (Emilymv), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:25 (twenty-one years ago)

Yes, but there are plenty of cases where a "murderer" was convicted, despite a few doubts, and later proven to be innocent. So, basically, I'm saying, convicted beyond a reasonable doubt as well as being an admitted killer.

xpost

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:27 (twenty-one years ago)

i wonder how the person/people who boned the 12 year old feels now.

ken c (ken c), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:27 (twenty-one years ago)

It's not the level of appallingness. Yeah, if it was a member of my family, I'd want them dead in all prob. But that's a case for repealing all murder laws. Just leave the dispensing of 'justice' to the ones that care enough...

mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:28 (twenty-one years ago)

hm, i think that would put you in the minority dave. do you have children?

No. And that is how I can be objective about this. Killing a child's parent is an affront to society too, no?

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:29 (twenty-one years ago)

Treating being murdered as part of the job risks of a cop is incredibly callous. I can't imagine you have any friends or relatives in law enforcement.

00ps, Monday, 17 January 2005 17:30 (twenty-one years ago)

.. or the army.

mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:31 (twenty-one years ago)

"How come you never see stories like this about people named Pamela, Michael and Tiffany?"

My first thought was how did I know this was going to be in Birmingham. My second thought was if these people were WHITE and BAPTIST this shit would probably never have leaked out (or if it had the spin would be vastly different.)

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:32 (twenty-one years ago)

dave, out of curiousity, do you think a person molesting someone else's kid is just as heinous as a person molesting their own kid?

00ps, Monday, 17 January 2005 17:32 (twenty-one years ago)

dave, out of curiousity, do you think a person molesting someone else's kid is just as heinous as a person molesting their own kid?

Um, yes I do. I think when you pass a certain level of proper behavior, the degree to which that behavior is offensive is no longer measurable.

Would you rather be raped or murdered? Have you stopped beating your wife yet? These questions are unanswerable.

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:35 (twenty-one years ago)

killing one's parent is not as offensive as killing a child. and how does not having children make you objective about this? if anything, it makes you less informed, less able to understand the complexities of the child-parent relationship. one is expected to be willing to lay down their life for their children. i am unconvinced that the reverse is true. (by the way, i don't have children yet either.)

Emilymv (Emilymv), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:36 (twenty-one years ago)

But the response in a 'death penalty' sense should not be about the 'offensiveness' of the killing. Oh, if it was a 'nice' murder like in "Murder she wrote" then the killer would most probably fling themselves off the castle wall...

mark grout (mark grout), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:38 (twenty-one years ago)

By killing a parent, I meant a stranger killing someone who is a parent, leaving children without a parent. What I mean to say is that I feel very sad for families that have lost a family member, whether it be a parent, child, spouse or sibling. All murders are an affront to society, is my point.

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:39 (twenty-one years ago)

all murders are not an affront to society, though. except perhaps in the narrowest legal definition of the word. society can readily accept murders of murderers (as in the death penalty or killings in prison-jeffrey dahmer comes to mind) and of self defense murders, killing another in combat, etc.

Emilymv (Emilymv), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:45 (twenty-one years ago)

My first thought was how did I know this was going to be in Birmingham. My second thought was if these people were WHITE and BAPTIST this shit would probably never have leaked out (or if it had the spin would be vastly different.)

pardon my possible ignorance but did you figure out the ethnicity and religion of those people from their name and where they're from? If not where was this reported?? I know nothing about Birmingham, Alabama..

ken c (ken c), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:47 (twenty-one years ago)

'But the response in a 'death penalty' sense should not be about the 'offensiveness' of the killing. Oh, if it was a 'nice' murder like in "Murder she wrote" then the killer would most probably fling themselves off the castle wall... '
-- mark grout (mark.grou...), January 17th, 2005 12:38 PM. (mark grout)


i'm not positive about it, but i think the 'offensiveness' of the killing is the motivation for seeking the death penalty in many or most cases. if not that, then what? what other criteria would you have them base it on?

Emilymv (Emilymv), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:49 (twenty-one years ago)

I see your point, dave. There's no need to make some sort of rating system for the heinousness of certain crimes past a certain point. Still, I think it's natural to be more appalled when the very person who is supposed to provide security and protection to a child, hurts that child.

00ps, Monday, 17 January 2005 17:50 (twenty-one years ago)

x-post

i totally assumed that they WERE WHITE and probably BAPTIST.

Emilymv (Emilymv), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:51 (twenty-one years ago)

If there is a white woman in Alabama named Tunisia who has named her daughter Jasmine and her son Jacorey then I apologize profusely, but I think I can fairly safely say that the race of the principles is pretty clearly apparent from their names.

Alex in SF (Alex in SF), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:52 (twenty-one years ago)

all murders are not an affront to society, though.
One of us needs to look up the definition of "affront to society."

I can see how some murders/crimes may cause more of an emotional response in some people, but our legal system is (presuambly) not about emotional responses.

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 17:53 (twenty-one years ago)

im just questioning this post:

"Only seeing two sides" means putting the moral issue at the center of things -- either it's wrong or not, and no other considerations enter. I'm actually always interested to see the rare people enter these debates whose view of the issue doesn't place that consideration at the center; I'm even happier to see someone do this and actually put something else convincing at the crux of it.
Okey dokey...
My feeling is that The State reserves the right to kill. Two obvious applications are 1) War and 2) the death penalty. Obviously, countries fuck up royally in their exercise of this bedrock right as a sovereign nation: the war in Iraq is a gross misapplication of the US right to wage war and kill people in the name of...whatever Bush is claiming as a rationale. With the death penalty, innocent people have been put to death, major miscarriage of justice, perversion of The State's right to punish its own. I don't disagree with the right of state and federal death penalties to exist, but without 100% assurance that the right person is being executed, it shouldn't be applied. (I think Barry Scheck is a hero.)

Now The State also grants its citizens the right to kill. One obvious example is killing in self-defense. If you come at with me with a knife in front of witnesses, miss with your first swing, and I send you down a flight of stairs and your neck snaps, I'm not going to jail. I also believe that abortion rights are an example of The State granting its citizenry the right to kill. I don't argue against the notion that abortion is taking a life; I just believe that up until a certain point of viability outside the womb, it's the mother's life to take, a right granted by The State. I think it's a more consistent approachthan being pro-execution and anti-abortion-rights, which makes as little sense as being pro-choice and anti-death-penalty. For me, logic and consistency are a lot more important than any moral claims one way or another.

-- I Am Curious (George) ([email protected]), January 17th, 2005 7:50 PM.

to me, none of this washes because neither states nor individuals have the right to kill. so a death penalty to me is not a exemplar of the state exercising this right-to-kill, its the state deciding that someone should be killed to a) remove this person from society and b) achieve some sort of vague balance in the actions that the person took, and the justice they recieved, both of which premises i feel are flawed and morally unjustifiable, which is why i dont support the death penalty.

ambrose (ambrose), Monday, 17 January 2005 21:38 (twenty-one years ago)

Puffin: Consistency of approach forestalls accusations of twisting the rules to get a desired effect? That's an argument, not necessarily my argument.

I Am Curious (George) (Rock Hardy), Monday, 17 January 2005 21:39 (twenty-one years ago)

I think you’re absolutely right, Ambrose, except in one sense not. I mean, on an international level there isn’t any such things as “right,” not in the top-down sense that we think about them: the only things in action are who can do what and who can stop them, and whatever agreements various states have negotiated to sort that all out. Which led me at first to agree with you, except that it turns out that the “society” of nations—you know, the whole network of international law and accords, which is the arbiter of non-metaphysical rights in this realm—kinda does cede to nations the right to kill: their own citizens (but only in “legitimate” judicial senses), and those of other nations (but but here the “legitimacy” of various war-acts gets super-super complicated).

But I don’t know why I even bother to trace out that line of thinking, because you’re right, obviously: apart from religion and metaphysics there’s no abstract right-to-kill that the state reserves—it can kill just because it has the force to do so and people don’t always mind so much. Ideally our particular nation will one day conclude—as my last state-of-residence recently did—that the whole thing is kinda wrongish and totally not worth it, and we should probably just quit.

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 17 January 2005 21:51 (twenty-one years ago)

IaC(G): yes, that makes sense.

The Mad Puffin (The Mad Puffin), Monday, 17 January 2005 21:54 (twenty-one years ago)

I only have a second to post, so I'll just say hugs all around.

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 21:54 (twenty-one years ago)

But I don’t know why I even bother to trace out that line of thinking, because you’re right, obviously: apart from religion and metaphysics there’s no abstract right-to-kill that the state reserves—it can kill just because it has the force to do so and people don’t always mind so much. Ideally our particular nation will one day conclude—as my last state-of-residence recently did—that the whole thing is kinda wrongish and totally not worth it, and we should probably just quit.

In a roundabout, down-the-rabbit-hole-and-back, incoherent-because-I've-never-studied-rhetoric kind of way, that's what my half-day of posts boil down to as well. (Really!)

I Am Curious (George) (Rock Hardy), Monday, 17 January 2005 22:04 (twenty-one years ago)

maybe im not undertsnading you nabisco, (which is most likely) but it seems like youre saying that the fact the international community doesnt force nations not to kill their own citizens, not through military force anyhow*, means that they are ceding that right, or implicitly granting it. to me, thats not the same thing at all. I doubt any country would attack another in order to abolish a death penalty, but i dont really consider that a sign that they are complicit in allowing nations to kill their own citizens.

*in fact there is pressure, maybe not "force" from other nations, of a diplomatic nature rather than militaristic, for countries like the US to abolish the death penalty. The very reason Russia abolished it in er...1996, was because having the death penalty tested its credentials as any kind of a European country, despite many of its citizens being pretty pro-capital punishment (yeah yeah, thats they sense i picked up, not necessarily true)

ambrose (ambrose), Monday, 17 January 2005 22:12 (twenty-one years ago)

It's certainly not clearly ceded -- everything negotiable up there -- but at this point I don't think it's seen as a particularly huge concern? (Possibly that's just a result of living in the U.S.) Killing-wise I was thinking more of the rules of war, which pretty explictly acknowledge legitimate state killing -- but of combatants, obviously. I mean, yeah, obviously international law hasn't come anywhere near establishing anything even remotely resembling a coherent set of values on these kinds of issues. But it seems generally accepted that states are going to kill, particularly in the course of defending their statehood, which bleeds pretty grayly into judicial execution. Right?

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 17 January 2005 22:27 (twenty-one years ago)

Well, maybe not, but the point was that I semi-saw where George was coming from with that one.

nabisco (nabisco), Monday, 17 January 2005 22:27 (twenty-one years ago)

blimey, i see what you mean, but i think waht you mean by "But it seems generally accepted that states are going to kill, particularly in the course of defending their statehood, which bleeds pretty grayly into judicial execution." is that because states go to war, they claim the right to kill, and therefore can claim the right to kill their own citizens.

as i said before, i dont think war is morally justified (not even by international rules of war, which dont legitimise war, but try and reduce and control the inhumanity of killing), so neither one nor the other can be justified by any State. I can see that if you accept one, then you can "grayly" accept the other, but...i dont know what i am surprised by. maybe the acceptance of either of those concepts.

ambrose (ambrose), Monday, 17 January 2005 22:35 (twenty-one years ago)

See, this is why I can't totally abandon the death penalty.

She's obviously insane. What good is killing her going to do?

Andrew (enneff), Monday, 17 January 2005 22:42 (twenty-one years ago)

Everyone who commits an act like this is somewhat insane. The test is whether she knew right from wrong, and "told him that if he shed a tear that she was going to kill him, too" kinda proves that she knew that killing her was wrong.

dave225 (Dave225), Monday, 17 January 2005 22:52 (twenty-one years ago)

What is the clinical definition of insanity?

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Monday, 17 January 2005 23:02 (twenty-one years ago)

I don't think there is a clinical defintion. There's a legal definition, and you could be clinically diagnosed with any one of a number of psychoses, which would classify you as insane, I suppose.

00ps, Monday, 17 January 2005 23:50 (twenty-one years ago)

When I read the first post on this thread I thought they should check her for brain damage.

Sébastien Chikara (Sébastien Chikara), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 00:00 (twenty-one years ago)

I wish to god that the idea of "legal insanity" didn't exist at all. It muddies the waters in ways that nothing else can. Saying that "everyone who commits an act like this is comewhat insane" is ludicrous. Everyone who commits an act like this is perpetrating an affront to society for sure. But when you say that they are legally insane you are denying that they commited it in any real sens of the word.

mouse (mouse), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 00:33 (twenty-one years ago)

Oh and I don't particularly care if a particular society chooses to punish particular crimes with death, imprisonment, or torture, but consistency would be nice. (hint: a gut reaction is not a hallmark of consistent thinking)

mouse (mouse), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 00:34 (twenty-one years ago)

Insanity or no, it's not going to accomplish anything by murdering her.

Andrew (enneff), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 00:37 (twenty-one years ago)

it would stop bleach advertisers getting any ideas...

ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 00:43 (twenty-one years ago)

what if it made the girl's father and his family feel like justice was served? Wouldn't that be accomplishing something?

00ps, Tuesday, 18 January 2005 00:46 (twenty-one years ago)

"domestos: kills more than just germs"

ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 00:47 (twenty-one years ago)

actually that'd be pretty sick wouldn't it

ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 00:47 (twenty-one years ago)

only in america!

lucifer, Tuesday, 18 January 2005 10:35 (twenty-one years ago)

It'd be pretty sick in Britain too.

ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 10:47 (twenty-one years ago)

I doubt she's insane, just stupid/simple/devout

Andrew Blood Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 11:04 (twenty-one years ago)

"devout"???? WTF?

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 12:48 (twenty-one years ago)

Did you think for even a second before you wrote that?

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 12:51 (twenty-one years ago)

maybe not the right choice of word but i know what he meant i think

Stevem On X (blueski), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 12:52 (twenty-one years ago)

Sorry for presuming she had some religous motivation

Andrew Blood Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 13:08 (twenty-one years ago)

"Devout" in the sense the 9/11 hijackers were, not my personal view of a devout person

Andrew Blood Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 13:11 (twenty-one years ago)

This will most likely come across as very offensive, but this seems like one of the few valid threads on ILE where k3n c's favorite word might be discussed ..

dave225 (Dave225), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 13:14 (twenty-one years ago)

Hey Dan I'm sorry to've offended you but what would've been better? "Dogmatic"?

Andrew Blood Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 13:16 (twenty-one years ago)

"fanatic"

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 13:50 (twenty-one years ago)

what... bukkake??!?!?!??!?!!! :D

xxpost

ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 13:54 (twenty-one years ago)

Not if she didn't spend most of her time defending (by force if necessary) her faith, personally. I think she believed this was the right thing to do. I don't think (sadly) there's a word for a purely domestic fanatic.

Andrew Blood Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 13:59 (twenty-one years ago)

I know that isn't the strict def. of the word and maybe the generally taken one would've been better but it doesn't have the same resonances

Andrew Blood Thames (Andrew Thames), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 14:03 (twenty-one years ago)

a "fanatic puritain". Bush wants to shape america that way, clearing out "indecency" from tv (janet's titty), radio (stern), fashion (Indecency Legislation), stores (fcuk), high scool (teen lovers's name and address appearing on a online sex registry for 25 years, alongside pedophiles and other real sexual predators, gets discriminated for rent, jobs, future relationships etc)

Sébastien Chikara (Sébastien Chikara), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 14:25 (twenty-one years ago)

wait.. so FCUK is still called FCUK in US???

ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 14:56 (twenty-one years ago)

Yes. Yes, it is.

Really, it's best to just nod and smile at us, then back away slowly while making placating hand gestures until you're out of the room.

The Ghost of Dan Perry (Dan Perry), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 14:57 (twenty-one years ago)

wait.. so FCUK is still called FCUK in US???

FCUS doesn't really have the same ring to it

Dadaismus (Dada), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 14:58 (twenty-one years ago)

Whereas the Factory records (US) catno FACTUS does have the same ring to it.

mark grout (mark grout), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 15:00 (twenty-one years ago)

In response to Andrew's

She's obviously insane. What good is killing her going to do?

00ps wrote:

What if it made the girl's father and his family feel like justice was served?

How are we to distinguish justice from revenge? Because they look awfully similar sometimes.

It wouldn't deter similar things (as the kind of person who would do such a thing is generally acknowledged to not be deterrable). It certainly wouldn't bring back the daughter. It would just serve to gratify our strong cultural sense that retribution feels good.

Put a little more charitably, what killing her would accomplish is that it would express our cultural revulsion for what she did. You could say we want to cement the society together by voicing our disapproval in the strongest possible terms.

But I don't like the notion that the state should be made to serve the emotional needs of the survivors. We don't live in a victimocracy, where the degree to which you were hurt by something defines how much the state works on your behalf. The state should keep its action confined to what's best for ALL of us, not the lust for retribution of a few people. That's a road we wouldn't want to go down: what's to stop people from claiming victimization left and right for increasingly silly reasons, and demanding that the state make them whole?

The Mad Puffin (The Mad Puffin), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 15:22 (twenty-one years ago)

awfully interesting. going back a million posts, to the inuit thing. in nigeria the tradition used to be that a court would try to calculate the earnings/amount of work that the victim would have brought in to their dependants or families over the course of a normal life. the convicted murderer would then be 'given' as a slave (with rights, no physical abuse or anything like that) to work for the family of the victim until the debt was repaid.

i kinda liked that idea. i don't know if they do it anymore. now they're civilised.

but this woman doesn't deserve the time spent discussing the case, put her down, and mve on.

d.arraghmac, Tuesday, 18 January 2005 15:45 (twenty-one years ago)

Wasn't there a homeless guy who was sentenced to be the victim's butler?

dave225 (Dave225), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 15:50 (twenty-one years ago)

That sounds awful. Like loosing a loved one isn't bad enough you have to see the killer's face every day? Ugh!

Thermo Thinwall (Thermo Thinwall), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 15:55 (twenty-one years ago)

sorry, that was a seinfeld reference.

dave225 (Dave225), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 15:55 (twenty-one years ago)

That sounds awful. Like loosing a loved one isn't bad enough you have to see the killer's face every day? Ugh!

while scrubbing your floor. better for acceptance maybe? i can see the hollywood script now....hugh grant is the foppish accidental-murderer who has killed sandra bullocks husband and now must wash her dishes........with cedric the entertainer as stalin the dog....

d.arraghmac, Tuesday, 18 January 2005 16:07 (twenty-one years ago)

"Th-the-the truth is, well the simple, plain truth is .. I just killed him on a lark, you see. It-it wasn't meant to .. well .. I hadn't considered the effect it would have on .. or certainly that I would .. fall in love with .. um"

dave225 (Dave225), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 16:18 (twenty-one years ago)

buy the maroon five soundtrack on your way in and get a mega popcorn free...

d.arragmac, Tuesday, 18 January 2005 16:20 (twenty-one years ago)

couldnt agree more mad puffin....

ambrose (ambrose), Tuesday, 18 January 2005 18:57 (twenty-one years ago)


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