Have you ever turned down sex in preference for a good solitary wank?

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I mean... sometimes sex with another person is just too much of a hassle and a headfuck, isn't it? On the other hand, perhaps I'm an autistic madman, who knows.

― James P. Harrys, Tuesday, 25 January 2005 17:32 (twenty-one years ago)

yes

― ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 25 January 2005 17:36 (twenty-one years ago)

No. No. I don't know either.

― Michael White (Hereward), Tuesday, 25 January 2005 17:36 (twenty-one years ago)

it was partly in not wanting things to turn into hassle and headfuck (actually if taken literally that would have been nice) and partly in revenge because she never bought me the quad vodka that night when we first met.

but when i got home i remembered that sex isn't all giving and that i'd missed out on a couple of hours of riveting sex and ended up thinking what could have been on my own.

― ken c (ken c), Tuesday, 25 January 2005 17:43 (twenty-one years ago)

I've had to do this a few times. Usually because the 2 minutes...uh, I mean, 2 hours of pleasure is not worth it for the "mess" that would inevitably have to be dealt with afterwards. A quick, "Uh, I have to go to the bathroom" usually works before things get too hot and heavy.

― kickitcricket (kickitcricket), Tuesday, 25 January 2005 17:50 (twenty-one years ago)

Yes, with my girlfriend. The sex is still good, but occasionally I just don't have the energy to go through the whole thing. So I wait until she goes to bed.

― Hurting (Hurting), Wednesday, 26 January 2005 04:44 (twenty-one years ago)

I have never turned down sex just to have a wank. I have turned down sex because of the bullshit I knew would come later, and I've kind of regretted those times ever since, even though it was the right thing to do each time. But turn down a bird in the hand for...um...? Well, no.

― Haibun (Begs2Differ), Wednesday, 26 January 2005 05:58 (twenty-one years ago)

Can't say I have. I have had a good solitary wank early in the day, knowing that there is also some sexualating with the wife coming up later in the day. EMBARRASSMENT OF RICHES.

― Curious George Rides a Republican (Rock Hardy), Wednesday, 26 January 2005 14:56 (twenty-one years ago)

Yes, but it was more to do with not having a condom available. ;-)

― The Phantom of the Operating System (kate), Wednesday, 26 January 2005 15:02 (twenty-one years ago)

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