Really obviously anorexic people who you see almost every day.

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There's one student who uses the library, blonde girl, quite pretty (or was) who has lost so much weight since she started here two and a bit years ago - it's almost frightening to see her walking through the library because she looks so ill. I've noticed a few girls over the three years I've worked here who the same thing has happened to, and it breaks my heart every time. There's no point to this, just... sadness.

Sick Mouthy (Nick Southall), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:27 (twenty years ago)

Someone I know was staying at a a psychiatric hospital, where there was also a special ward for severe anorectics. She happened to notice that there were women's magazines (with typical fashion pics) lying around on the lounge. She complained about this to one of the doctors, who seemed to have no idea that there might be something wrong with this. What the hell?!

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:34 (twenty years ago)

um, i think that just maybe there's more to this illness than media images of beautiful women okthx.

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:36 (twenty years ago)

in fact, it works both ways. this week's 'heat' magazine cover and main picture-story is on 'CURVES', ie pics of j-lo, beyonce blah blah blah, and the emphasis there is on femininity, having curves is identified with 'being a woman'. so thin women are actually deprived of their sexuality.

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:38 (twenty years ago)

Someone I know was staying at a a psychiatric hospital, where there was also a special ward for severe anorectics. She happened to notice that there were babies lying around on the lounge. She complained about this to one of the doctors, who seemed to have no idea that there might be something wrong with this. What the hell?!

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:38 (twenty years ago)

um, i think that just maybe there's more to this illness than media images of beautiful women okthx.

Of course, but subscribing such magazines, most of which still see thinness as the ideal body form (besides, even if you call them "curvy", Beyonce and J-Lo still look pretty damn thin to me - maybe they're "curvy" in the ideal world of fashion mags), certainly isn't going to help people with serious psychic problems with their body image.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:43 (twenty years ago)

Ken, this is one subject I really don't find funny at all.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:44 (twenty years ago)

She complained about this to one of the doctors, who seemed to have no idea that there might be something wrong with this.

Uh, she should realize that anorexia is not about how the media portrays women. In general it's about control issues. It's certainly not about trying to copy models.

The hospital I frequented was so depressing. I didn't stay there. I did a few sessions for something else.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:44 (twenty years ago)

i don't think j-lo is anorexic

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:44 (twenty years ago)

Some "really obviously anorexic people" are just, you know, skinny. And lots of students lose weight when they go to university because they don't eat well. It happened to me, and people thought I had a disorder, when really I just wasn't into cooking. I don't think there's any benefit in presuming to know what's happening in the life of a complete stranger based on ludicrously limited information.

James Ward (jamesmichaelward), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:44 (twenty years ago)

what course of action are you suggesting here, tuomas? we ban pictures of the beautiful people?

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:45 (twenty years ago)

I think Tuomas made a sound point.

Sororah T Massacre (blueski), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:48 (twenty years ago)

i'm really not eating well lately. I think jet-lag has really decreased my appetite and i hate it.

dude the obvious course of action is to print out the ipso fatso thread for distribution around hospitals.

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:49 (twenty years ago)

what if the guy was wanking over a picture of a thin lady, would that not maybe lead to the baby having body-image issues later on? it would always associate thinness with sexiness!

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:51 (twenty years ago)

maybe the baby'd think the dude is trying to feed the thin lady porridge

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:52 (twenty years ago)

Uh, she should realize that anorexia is not about how the media portrays women. In general it's about control issues. It's certainly not about trying to copy models.

Yes, I know that media isn't the immediate cause of anorexia, but if you want to control something that also means that you strive for an ideal - and where does that ideal come from?


what course of action are you suggesting here, tuomas? we ban pictures of the beautiful people?

We've had this discussion before... No, I'm not for banning anything, but I certainly wouldn't subscribe these mags to a fuckin psychiatric ward. You wouldn't put books about suicide to a ward with people who have suicidal tendencies either, would you?

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:54 (twenty years ago)

depends on the book i guess.

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 10:56 (twenty years ago)

like, some books that talk about how people dealt with thoughts of suicide in the past may well be helpful. much like how there isn't much that's intrisically wrong with the women's magazines being there, unless they actually tell people to not eat properly.

Being thin is not the problem it's the steps people take in order to get thin.

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:01 (twenty years ago)

Nick: there are lots of explanations for sudden weight loss. It's not necessarily anorexia.

The thinnest person I've ever seen came from the US to a conference I ran, went straight into a hospice upon her return and died a few days later. She had terminal cancer, and looked like she'd just walked out of Belsen. It was shocking, but I'm glad she came as it was her very great wish to attend (although I find it really hard to understand how somebody can care *that much* about her work, but there you go).

Mädchen (Madchen), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:04 (twenty years ago)

isn't much that's intrisically wrong with the women's magazines being there, unless they actually tell people to not eat properly

It should be rather obvious that media images work on other levels too than what they directly tell us to do.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:08 (twenty years ago)

i kind of believe that nick's girl IS anorexic -- why not, lots of students are -- and that it's a real problem and there's a difference between being thin and having an eating disorder which has more to do with, funnily enough, eating rather than body shape as such. but alas unless you know her, there's nothing you can do -- and even if you did, there'd still be very little.

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:10 (twenty years ago)

you mean: "to have a decent diet and regular exercise you can look great too"?

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:10 (twenty years ago)

Yes, I know that media isn't the immediate cause of anorexia, but if you want to control something that also means that you strive for an ideal - and where does that ideal come from?

Dude, it's not about how the media portrays women. One of the last things that anorexics have is control over their body. One of the reasons people with anorexia (and boulemia) have this eating disorder is that they feel they have lost control and the only thing they can control is their body. Anorexia is not only prevalent in Western society but in cultures that does not propagate skinniness.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:13 (twenty years ago)

you can draw lots of things from images and the whole idea of therapy is to draw the positive ones. making a big hoohah taboo of images of thin people may well be detrimental to this, the solution to distorted self image isn't to show them lots of pictures of sumo wrestlers.

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:13 (twenty years ago)

It should be rather obvious that media images work on other levels too than what they directly tell us to do.


-- Tuomas (tuomas.alh...), December 7th, 2005.

if this is true, then there's nothing wrong with showing pictures of thin people cos it'll work on all these 'other levels'.

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:15 (twenty years ago)

i read this one women's magazine this morning and it seemed to be mainly about wayne rooney. and people getting caught shagging by CCTV cameras.

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:19 (twenty years ago)

i think it's fair in a way to associate cutting, as an illness, with anorexia -- and yet how few images of mutilated forearms appear in the glossies. discus.

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:21 (twenty years ago)

When my girlfriend had, not an eating disorder, but I guess eating issues (before we met), it was totally a control issue, and nothing to do with body image.

Sick Mouthy (Nick Southall), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:21 (twenty years ago)

erm you forgot
http://victorian.fortunecity.com/rembrandt/441/4real.jpg

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:23 (twenty years ago)

Dude, it's not about how the media portrays women. One of the last things that anorexics have is control over their body. One of the reasons people with anorexia (and boulemia) have this eating disorder is that they feel they have lost control and the only thing they can control is their body. Anorexia is not only prevalent in Western society but in cultures that does not propagate skinniness.

I have to disagree with you. It's no just about media images, but they do have an effect. Eating disorders can be found is less thinness-obsessed cultures, but I doubt they're as prevalent. Here's some quotes from an anorexia website (http://www.helpguide.org/mental/anorexia_signs_symptoms_causes_treatment.htm):

Who is likely to suffer from anorexia?

Anorexia nervosa is more common in females and usually begins in adolescence. Between 1% and 2% of all females develop anorexia. Less than 1% of males develops anorexia nervosa. The disorder is more common in industrialized countries where thinness is a positive cultural trait. A person with a family member who has anorexia is more likely to develop anorexia.

Social causes

The cultural or social environment may cause or reinforce a propensity toward anorexia. Particular professions (fashion model, horse jockey) and sports (ballet, gymnastics) emphasize thinness and low body weight. Female athletes are particularly prone to being anorexic. Coaches may encourage them to lose weight, and they may notice improved performance with some weight loss. However, the anorexic does not know when to stop losing weight, and, ultimately, hinders performance by not consuming enough calories or nutrients to fuel the body.

Some cultures value thinness as a key element of attractiveness, especially for women. Thus, social pressure is a cause of anorexia.

Families that are overprotective or emphasize overachievement or physical fitness often produce anorexic family members.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:23 (twenty years ago)

hey i know i wanted to look like a HORSE JOCKEY as a teenager.

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:26 (twenty years ago)

i know someone who did that 4REAL thing on his arm. i have no idea whether he wouldn't have done some other forms of cutting had it not been that picture.

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:26 (twenty years ago)

Here's another article:

http://serendip.brynmawr.edu/bb/neuro/neuro03/web2/arutigliano.html

A quote:

Since the symptoms of anorexia often appear around puberty, another hypothesis is that the girl is afraid of becoming a woman, and therefore diets away all signs of puberty (i.e., breasts, hips, menses). The full-time preoccupation with weight also allows her to avoid adolescent social and sexual concerns and potential conflicts with parents. (8) In case of the pubescent girl, it is possible to trace the cause of anorexia past the initial preoccupation with weight to deeper control issues. The pubescent girl in the throw of fluctuating hormones, and massive physical change, would fit the bill of a person whom would feel as if they had lost control of their world. Their body is turning against them, what better way to reassert control than to regulate its intake of food and thus its shape. Puberty is also the time in which a girl begins to identify herself as a woman, both mentally and physically. She will look at her environment for female role models to copy. This leads to another cause of anorexia—the media. The role of the American cultural ideal of thinness is thought to contribute, at least by encouraging initial dieting, but the scope of its influence is unclear. On any given day, 25% of American men and 45% of American women are actively dieting; moreover, children are starting to diet as early as first grade. Anorexia is now being seen in nonwestern countries that receive American television, so it may be that a cultural ideal of thinness is a potent catalyst. (5)

There are several possible and parallel causes for anorexia, but it would be kinda naive to deny media images can't be one.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:27 (twenty years ago)

i know someone who did that 4REAL thing on his arm. i have no idea whether he wouldn't have done some other forms of cutting had it not been that picture.
-- ken c (pykachu10...), December 7th, 2005.

i wrote '4 Real' in red on my sling, when i broke my arm -- i blame richey for this.

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:29 (twenty years ago)

On any given day, 25% of American men and 45% of American women are actively dieting

given obesity levels in the US, isn't this a good thing?

dieting has fuck-all to do with anorexia anyway.

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:31 (twenty years ago)

Dieting isn't the same as anorexia, but can't you really see any connection between the two?

I can't believe I'm even having this conversation...

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:40 (twenty years ago)

Eating isn't the same as obesity.

Onimo (GerryNemo), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:42 (twenty years ago)

psychologically there is a lot of difference -- dieting can have a number of purposes, but i don't think self-destruction/harm is one of them. anorexics quite often de-emphasize their thinness by wearing baggy clothes, for example -- it isn't about looking good.

xpost

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:44 (twenty years ago)

can you really trust a research paper from a student who uses "whom" incorrectly?

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:45 (twenty years ago)

If not, then whom can you trust?

Onimo (GerryNemo), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:47 (twenty years ago)

i trust the internet with my life, so unattributed, random copy-and-pastes from googleland always win me over.

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:49 (twenty years ago)

Eating disorders can be found is less thinness-obsessed cultures, but I doubt they're as prevalent.

Well, one theory contradicts another. The one that I read is that statistically it's as prevalent here as in other cultures.

Dieting isn't the same as anorexia, but can't you really see any connection between the two?

The reasons for doing the same thing are vastly different. Of course anorexia is about dieting, but taken to an extreme.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 11:49 (twenty years ago)

What is your source then, Nathalie? Because most texts I've read indicate anorexia is more common in the West. This paper, for example, states it pretty explicitly:

Internationally: Rates of anorexia nervosa are similar in all developed countries with high economic status. The disorder is far more prevalent in industrialized societies where food is abundant and thinness is a measure of feminine attractiveness.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 12:20 (twenty years ago)

Rates of anorexia nervosa are similar in all developed countries with high economic status. The disorder is far more prevalent in industrialized societies...

i can believe this -- either way it's a matter of stats (which, um, will probably be more accurately measured in the industrial west but hey).

... where food is abundant and thinness is a measure of feminine attractiveness.

these are also facts, but the concrete links to anorexia are assumed. many other things differentiate the industrial from the semi-industrialized worlds: why the focus on images of female beauty in the west, when all sorts of other factors may be in play?

Theorry Henry (Enrique), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 12:27 (twenty years ago)

Hmm, I think it was a program with a Belgian specialist. Maybe I misinterpreted what the person said, but I distinctly remember her saying it was very much prevalent in other cultures. I think she wanted to let people think it was something to do with genes. But also that it was not about how much food was available or about thiness being popular. She also said that in the past, such as Rubens' time when chubbiness was fashionable, there were still a lot of anorexics. I can't really remember because it was so long ago. And maybe I misinterpreted it a little. :-)

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 12:31 (twenty years ago)

Off topic a little, but I've recently started dating a girl who is very, very thin, who has an eating disorder in that she vomits when she is extremely nervous and can't really handle eating in public places. But she's eaten at home with me, and ate everything and didn't seem to be sick afterwards. I don't really know what to do - maybe she is just very skinny, her brother is also very slim - but I feel that, if she does have a problem, I should do something, and that not pursuing my suspicions that she might be anorexic or bulimic would be ignoring what might be a problem, which seems wrong somehow.

It should also be noted that I have a history of 'needing' to 'help' people, and grew up the carer of a disabled parent. I like the girl lots and lots, but am worried too that I might be indulging this tendency to 'rescue' people.

notloggedin, Wednesday, 7 December 2005 12:40 (twenty years ago)

these are also facts, but the concrete links to anorexia are assumed. many other things differentiate the industrial from the semi-industrialized worlds: why the focus on images of female beauty in the west, when all sorts of other factors may be in play?

Maybe because it sounds like the most probable explanation for the difference?

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 12:41 (twenty years ago)

does she acknowledge that she vomits when she eats at public places? if so perhaps you should ask whether she has seen a doctor about it.

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 12:44 (twenty years ago)

Anorexia often starts after "normal" dieting, so the images that the media presents us with, and the numerous articles about: how to get the perfect body, the best exercises to get rid of that belly, etc, are defnitely an influence! I'm a former anorexic, and I;ve been hospitalized, but beauty/glamourmagazines were absolutely prohibited where I stayed! It's true that anorexia is present on other cultures, and it has been for centuries, but the number of girls that suffer from it or lean toward it keeps rising, and the danger nowadays is that an anorexic often LOOKS like a model, at least sizewise, and is not always recognized as a person with an illness.

Eva van Rein (Gaia1981), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 12:45 (twenty years ago)

Maybe I misinterpreted what the person said, but I distinctly remember her saying it was very much prevalent in other cultures. I think she wanted to let people think it was something to do with genes.

Nathalie maybe you did misinterpret and she actually meant it had something to do with JEANS, because they make them so skinny these days and one has to be anorexic to fit into a pair!

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 12:46 (twenty years ago)

Is it normal for someone who has coped with anorexia in the past to still be unable to menstruate? (Irony: She was making a documentary about an anorexia clinic while anorexic!) I have been bugging her to see a doctor, but her mom is dying of cancer so she's a little preoccupied.

GET EQUIPPED WITH BUBBLE LEAD (ex machina), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 17:15 (twenty years ago)

Oh probably all of those things happened.

Allyzay must fight Zolton herself. (allyzay), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 17:16 (twenty years ago)

Killing herself is not going to make her mom any healthier!

Dan (Unless Her Mom Is A Lich) Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 17:16 (twenty years ago)

Jon, it's not normal but it's not abnormal either, it can wreck your cycles for quite some time. Not menstruating at ALL is a little weirder than normal, and she should see a doctor to make sure it's nothing more serious than her body readjusting though.

Allyzay must fight Zolton herself. (allyzay), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 17:17 (twenty years ago)

Is there some function, that can be built into ILX, to zap Tuomas every time he comes to proclaim about What Women Think and What Women Should Think?

Er, when did I say this? I said I was speaking for my friends and for myself. I do happen to believe that, very often, fashion etc images affect women in negative ways. I do not, however, claim to know what all women think or what they should do. I do not believe in universal womanhood or universal sisterhood, but I also don't believe that gender doesn't matter anymore. I think in many cases most women get the shorter end of the stick because of their perceived gender, and even if there are some women (like you?) who may feel they live in an equal world, that doesn't change the fact that many others don't feel that way.


I really, really wish people would stop trivializing eating disorders the way you men like to do on ILX. Women be so dumb that they starve themselves to death when they see Jennifer Aniston. Riiiiiiiiiight.

Again, who said this and when? I was merely trying to say that media images is one of the many causes of anorexia, because some folks here were claiming these two have no connection whatsoever.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 17:30 (twenty years ago)

Please explain what "living in an equal world" has to do with media and anorexia.

Media images are NOT one of the many causes of anorexia, is what I am saying. Anorexia, bulemia, and serious overeating disorders are all sides of the same (err, 3-sided) coin! They are not CAUSED by any media image and sitting there and saying so is trivializing the issue. Call back when you become an anorexic woman, Tuomas.

Allyzay must fight Zolton herself. (allyzay), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 17:40 (twenty years ago)

Thread title > 186 new answers > oh boy geez, I wonder what wonderful minor-point argument this one turned into. It's like a psychic present sitting right there: Anorexia (186 new answers).

Hey but yeah, there are kind of two levels of this thing, right? Anorexia (and lots of similar problems) at root seems to be totally about control and some deeply unhealthy form of self-discipline; this is what "they" say, and this is how it's been every time I've had any contact with the real thing. The media-images part is kind of a second level, having to do with what in particular that control and discipline get directed toward. And what's so slippery about all this is we kind of prize control and discipline in each of these ways -- in dieting, in muscle-building, in whatever -- in a way that makes it inevitable that some people will get more or less addicted to the thrill of doing it successfully, and just plain go too far. Stripping off the stuff they direct that energy toward doesn't really solve the problem -- though I suppose if we could shift some of our control-and-discipline issues away from the body itself, people who have these problems would at least be safer, health-wise. But yeah, the relationship of media images to anorexia is probably about the same as the relationship of heavy metal to certain teenage suicides -- it's more part of the milieu in which the problem wound up expressing itself.

Actual answer: I have maybe two in my neighborhood. One is a very ill-looking woman who I never really thought this about until I noticed her eating her daily croissant at the cafe -- she spends an hour and a half slowly dismembering and barely-tasting the thing, complete with lots of little rituals that one is better off not observing. (I suppose it's vaguely possible that she has some devastating digestive disease that makes normal eating impossible, though of course that would just be sadder.) The other one is a college girl, so far as I can tell, who is kind of proudly skeletal, and immaculately fancy in so many other ways (makeup, posture, clothes) that you can tell regimenting her appearance is a total neurotic focus of hers. It's difficult to see her, in part because of all that fanciness -- e.g., she wears jeans that actually cling to her non-existent legs, and I find it vaguely disturbing that anyone would even make fashionable jeans in such a shape. She's looked this way for at least two years, no particular changes, and seems publically and socially normal.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 17:47 (twenty years ago)

(Both of the medically-serious anorexics I've known have said in the end that they felt like they were basically asserting ownership over their bodies / control over their lives, two things they didn't feel like they were able to establish in other ways. Obviously in the long term anorexia does the exact opposite of both those things, but in the short term I can imagine how it might be easy to blur the line. Hell, there have been times when I've gone in this direction due to lack of money, getting some control thrill out of disciplining myself to not-eat for days and therefore lowering my budget -- this is like total psychic small potatoes compared to anorexia, I know, but I imagine the functions are similar.)

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 17:53 (twenty years ago)

I suppose it's vaguely possible that she has some devastating digestive disease that makes normal eating impossible, though of course that would just be sadder.

No shit, I briefly worked with a young woman who had a PARALYZED STOMACH! As in, it produced the usual kinds of acids and enzymes but didn't contract or move food around, requiring her to take a mostly-liquid diet or chew the hell out of baked goods -- I watched her gum a couple of bagels to death. But she was far from "anorexic-looking", actually, she was sort of pleasantly curvy in that good Jewish girl way. Possibly the most interesting part is that she said researchers are developing a pacemaker-equivalent for the stomach that would send a little shock as stimulus and fool the muscles into contracting, which I think is just plain cool.

Laurel (Laurel), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 17:57 (twenty years ago)

"oh sorry, i had my dial set to 'puke', gosh i need to be more careful"

geoff (gcannon), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 18:08 (twenty years ago)

Media images are NOT one of the many causes of anorexia, is what I am saying. Anorexia, bulemia, and serious overeating disorders are all sides of the same (err, 3-sided) coin! They are not CAUSED by any media image and sitting there and saying so is trivializing the issue. Call back when you become an anorexic woman, Tuomas.

So you won't accept Eva's personal testimony nor the medical papers I quoted as any sort of proof that there may be some connection between the two? Of course I'm not saying that media images are the sole cause of anything; however, psychological disorders probably never have one single cause at all. That doesn't mean we can't figure some things that probably may have something do with these disorders developing, at least in part of the cases. As for me calling back when I've become an anorexic woman - as I said, these things aren't gender-specific anymore, and I could say I have had some personal experiences of them, but that's something I'm not willing to share on this thread, and it'd probably be dismissed anyway.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 18:37 (twenty years ago)

Anyway, I'm more interested on the larger subject of self-esteem and body images and media's effect on them, in which I think the connection is undeniable and the effects genderized (though these days perhaps less so).

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 18:40 (twenty years ago)

Possibly not the right time to make a joke but Tuomas, judging by the underwear thread I would not have pegged you as someone with any particular body-image issues (apart from the criminally underdiagnosed crotchibitionism).

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 18:43 (twenty years ago)

Let's just say I'm probably more comfortable with my body these days than what I used to be.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 18:46 (twenty years ago)

tuomas you didn't quote any medical papers, you quoted the website built by the rotary club of santa monica and a paper written for biology 202 at bryn mawr.

the media is the last thing we need to worry about w/r/t eating disorders, if only cos pragmatically there's nothing that can be done concretely about it.

geoff (gcannon), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 18:48 (twenty years ago)

I think the point being made that Tuomas is not getting is that media images EXACERBATE eating disorders; they do not CAUSE them.

Dan (And So On) Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 18:53 (twenty years ago)

xpost (yes Dan xx Perry totally)

Anyway I don't think anyone's denying that media images have plenty to do with people's experiences with anorexia and possibly some of their routes toward it. It's just an argument of role and degree. And personally I'm usually just wary of oversimplifications that overlink media image with something much deeper / more personal / psychological. Not saying this is what you're doing, Tuomas, but there are some out there who seem to imagine that anorexia is strictly a matter of women being brainwashed into wanting to look like fashion models.

The problem with this is that lots of women would like to look like fashion models, and go about putting energy into making that happen. Most of them get as conventionally-pretty as possible without doing anything weird, and then stop; we consider this normal and healthy. Most of them, having gotten to the actual size of a fashion model, would congratulate themselves and work on maintenance; we consider that normal and healthy. There's some whole other factor involved in things like anorexia -- something that leads a person to seize on control of diet or body or whatever to an unhealthy extent, to try and make their control over that stand in for control over something they can't control. The images are completely secondary to that. Like I said before, if we didn't confer such cultural approval on people who can control their bodies, then maybe it wouldn't be quite as appealing as a realm in which to work out these issues -- but that wouldn't make the issues go away, it would just redirect them to different outlets.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 18:55 (twenty years ago)

tuomas you didn't quote any medical papers, you quoted the website built by the rotary club of santa monica and a paper written for biology 202 at bryn mawr.

Did you read the last text I linked? Here's another one. I guess I could post more of those, but I'm not sure what would be enough. Anyway, I have to redraw my original claim. All of those papers say that there's no definite cause for anorexia found, but most of them mention social pressure / environment as one of the possible factors. So anyone who claims anorexia is caused by this or that can't make a 100% sure claim. Personally, however, I think the connection between beauty ideals and eating disorders, at least in some of the cases, is a bit too obvious to be completely ignored.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 18:59 (twenty years ago)

(xx-post)

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 18:59 (twenty years ago)

But as I said, I don't claim to be any sort of expert on eating disorders, so I don't want to mix them with the larger subject of body issues and media, which is something I think everyone is affected by (though to a different degree depending on gender and other factors).

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 19:04 (twenty years ago)

MORE ANECTDOTAL EVIDENCE:

I know several people who have suffered from eating disorders. Many of them were triggered into it by being fiercely competitive people who were in a sport/activity (dancing, singing, gymnastics, swimming) where they were told by a coach/instructor that they would never progress past a certain level unless they lost weight; the eating disorder arose out of a fixation to either please the instructor and do what they were told OR a fixation to prove the instructor wrong and succeed after having been told they were going to be a failure. Others had turned to eating as a comfort activity that relieved some amount of uncontrollable external stress, or more realistically replaced it with the "controllable" stress of "Oh, I've eaten XXXXX, I have to throw up before I get fat."

Dan (And So On) Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 19:06 (twenty years ago)

Why is it important to make sure that we include "media images" as one of the causes of anorexia, Tuomas? That's a real question.

Tracer Hand (tracerhand), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 19:06 (twenty years ago)

xpost

I'm not sure how that's "obvious," dude. Most women internalize the idea that being slender and model/actress-sized is a good thing. Of those women, it's only a small percentage who develop the separate problem of going beyond that into something like clinical anorexia, which has no intentions of conforming to model-sizing and usually accompanies psychological and emotional problems of much more real-life varieties. (Cf all the life-control discipline/fierceness stuff Dan and I have now both touched on.)

Maybe what we need to do is draw a distinction between stuff like clinical anorexia and more run-of-mill eating disorders. I hate using that phrasing there, but it's true -- there's a slight difference between serious illness and the kind of low-level bulimia you might find people using "just to stay thin." The latter is way easier to connect with beauty standards; the former has a little something extra at issue.

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 19:08 (twenty years ago)

Yeah, I totally agree with that.

Tuomas (Tuomas), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 19:10 (twenty years ago)

(I apologize in advance if the phrasing of that sentence makes it seem like I don't consider bulimia "serious," which obviously isn't the case. What I mean = the kind of media-image eating disorders we could talk about strike me as maybe a whole different variety from the pyschologies of e.g. extreme anorexia.)

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 19:10 (twenty years ago)

But as I said, I don't claim to be any sort of expert on eating disorders, so I don't want to mix them with the larger subject of body issues and media

the 'larger subject' bit was almost the pun of the century

ken c (ken c), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 19:34 (twenty years ago)

Thinking about this over lunch: the odd part is that the same kinds of neuroses involved in eating disorders crop up in a million other places, too -- only they don't affect the body, and so don't get isolated and diagnosed as health issues. The kinds of control and achievement issues that are working in mild teenage anorexia aren't so different from the ones working on, say, total soul- and body-killing academic neurosis (the person who stays up three days straight studying for some minor quiz because he has to do better than some other kid, or because how will she get into Harvard if she got a B+), or in what we tend to consider "normal" athletics (wrecking body and sometimes mind in insane-level 24/7 no-life commitment to sports, which of course feeds right back into body and nutrition stuff). Society as a whole kinda talks with two mouths concerning each of these things, in that we can't really offer clear borders between the levels on which we congratulate this stuff and the levels on which we think it's gone too far and become unhealthy. And while in each of those cases there's some outside pressure that's kind of dictating the playing field for the sickness (fashion magazines, Harvard, the whole athletic system/industry), the fact is that the sickness comes from something else. We make it a major part of people's lives and self-images to see how well they can discipline themselves and control something (diet, study, sports, beauty contests, musculature) and when something else goes off balance, there's always the possibility for people to latch neurotically onto that one thing as the realm of their absolute control and self-expression (anorexia, self-destructive work and study, self-destructive athletics, chronic/addictive plastic surgery, steroid use, on and on and on).

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 19:55 (twenty years ago)

It's really not cute when academically-driven people snap, as they tend to take out themselves and other people around them:

http://www.courttv.com/trials/pring-wilson/
http://www.thecrimson.com/article.aspx?ref=217867
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elizabeth_Shin
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sinedu_Tadesse

Dan (This Has Nothing To Do With Eating Disorders, I Know) Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 20:12 (twenty years ago)

I see a lot of anorexic people in US Weekly.

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 20:13 (twenty years ago)

I like sickly thin people; they give me something to strive towards. Sometimes I wish hunger was an emotion.

Lara (Lara), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 20:16 (twenty years ago)

http://www.gwjokes.com/pictures/6th-sense.jpg

GET EQUIPPED WITH BUBBLE LEAD (ex machina), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 20:18 (twenty years ago)

Ha, Dan, that last one reminds me of my sick thought that I would have liked to have wound up going to Harvard, just so I could come in the year afterward and be all like "ooo, I'm your new Ethiopian roommate, let's be BEST FRIENDS mwah-ha-ha-ha."

nabisco (nabisco), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 20:19 (twenty years ago)

Hahaha nice!

Dan (Would Have Been CLASSIC) Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 20:25 (twenty years ago)

A good acquaintence of mine was actually trying to take her home the night before she did that; she kept putting him off with "Sorry, I have to get up early tomorrow and take care of something."

Dan (YIKES) Perry (Dan Perry), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 20:27 (twenty years ago)

I have a good friend who's bulimic, though she's got it under control now. I think she started to deal with it seriously when it fucked up her back teeth, her molars.

andy --, Wednesday, 7 December 2005 21:01 (twenty years ago)

Impossible fashion ideals and anorexia may not be "cause" --> "result", but they're symtoms of the same problem. I don't believe they are necessarily connected in an immediate way, as in girl sees skinny model and so starves herself. However, I definitely don't think they're unrelated. I know anorexia is not about looks, usually, but about self control. (And yes, I do have first-hand experience of this. And second-hand. And third-hand.) But an image of a beautiful, slim, well-dressed model is also about control. In a sense, it's the perfect simplified symbolic image of self control. Yes, there are billions of other more complex reasons and factors in anorexia, but this is one that stares at you from every magazine every single day. It may not be the cause, but it's part of the problem.

Hanna (Hanna), Wednesday, 7 December 2005 21:39 (twenty years ago)

I think the argument about fashion magazines and the like should be taken one step further out i.e. the problem isn't what's in the magazines but the fact that the culture at large ascribes such importance to magazines filled with mostly ads. The same can be said about violence on television. The problem isn't the violence on the TV, it's our relationship with the TV.

Believing Vogue and the like to be a major contributor to the propagation of anorexia reminds me of those paretns who tried to sue Judas Priest and Ozzy for causing their son's suicide.

shookout (shookout), Thursday, 8 December 2005 02:57 (twenty years ago)

I'm not sure if this was mentioned up-thread, but perception is a big issue here. It becomes distorted, and the reason control is latched on to so tightly is that the image is not perfect, it is unsatisfactory, grotesque. While the person may look grotesquely thin to you, she still looks grotesquely un-thin to herself.

And Nabs, no amount of diet + self-control is going to make the average women achieve a supermodel figure.

Mary (Mary), Thursday, 8 December 2005 03:15 (twenty years ago)

I would echo what Hanna says: the thing about anorexia and other eating disorders and their relation to mass media is that a particular image of the female body comes to signify control to the anorectic, so that it's not about control as completely divorced from a "look," it's the total fusion of the two things. And one has usually invested that "look" with positive value before one gets sick.

Also, with regard to the claim that men get cultural pressure to live up to a certain physical standard, this is obviously true (and sadly, seems to be increasingly true), but it doesn't seem to me to by and large approach the same degree of...perniciousness as the women and weight thing. Except maybe when it comes to balding...but I'm not a dude, and maybe I'm talking out of my ass on this.

horseshoe, Thursday, 8 December 2005 03:28 (twenty years ago)

Anorexia is also a really passive-agressive sort of thing, cause it's often caused by the feeling that other people/society expect too much from you. You feel too much pressure, and it's often a way of showing the people around you: look what you did to me, you've asked so much from me that I can;'t stop striving for perfection and your ideal images of what I should be like and look like. Not eating and being stickthin is, from what I;ve seen, often like saying: I want to be taken care of again. So it's very paradoxical, in on the one side trying to live up to the standards, and on the other side battling against it. And the media IS still an influence, because it sets high standards for women in appearance, and being socially competent etc. I think the appearance standards go for men as well, but the focus lies different there, probably on status? But that's for the men to answer, cause I don;t read men's magazines :P

Eva van Rein (Gaia1981), Thursday, 8 December 2005 03:30 (twenty years ago)

and the same goes for achievement in athletics/academics, by the way: lots of anorexics merely Claim they work that much harder than other students, while spending approximately the same time on their work. I think the main problem is that ..(I was going to say we, but I can't speak for other anorexics, of course) are more occupied with other people's judgements and expectations of us than people without an eating disorder, or other control issues, for that matter.

Eva van Rein (Gaia1981), Thursday, 8 December 2005 03:40 (twenty years ago)

I think the main problem is that ..(I was going to say we, but I can't speak for other anorexics, of course) are more occupied with other people's judgements and expectations of us than people without an eating disorder, or other control issues, for that matter.

This certainly jibes with the personalities of the people I know who have battled anorexia.

Dan (OTM) Perry (Dan Perry), Thursday, 8 December 2005 05:38 (twenty years ago)

I would if I didn't have a girlfriend. Good lord there are so many women of so many sizes and shapes whose bottoms I would like to cup gently in my hands like slightly overripe peaches. MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM I love women.

-- Sick Mouthy (sickmouth...), December 7th, 2005.

really obviously creepy people who post on ile almost every day

oooh, Thursday, 8 December 2005 05:47 (twenty years ago)

I just wanted to point out that the last bit of that is a red herring. The first part of it is far more telling. You wouldn't develop anorexia in a country where people actually are starving en masse and you don't actually HAVE control over your food intake. Thinness was a measure of feminine attractiveness in the eastern bloc countries as well but there's nothing to indicate they had a very high anorexia rate in Russia.

Because it hasn't been reported it doesn't mean it's as prevalent in Russia. (I'm getting into hot water here, because I realize that if I say this, I may be saying that it's more to do with genes than culture. As has been proposed by some people. Actually I do think it has something to do with it... maybe... but of course also culture.)

I really, really wish people would stop trivializing eating disorders the way you men like to do on ILX. Women be so dumb that they starve themselves to death when they see Jennifer Aniston. Riiiiiiiiiight.

I don't know, do men really trivialize it so much (here or elesewhere)? I don't think gender has much to do with ignorance, I see girls spouting silliness on message boards and in real life as much.

I think the main problem is that ..(I was going to say we, but I can't speak for other anorexics, of course) are more occupied with other people's judgements and expectations of us than people without an eating disorder, or other control issues, for that matter.

I know my ED mostly started out because I felt a loss of control and terribly insecure. I just had a slow burning pannic attack and the only way I could control myself and show my emotions was through my ED. You also attach emotions with food and that takes a long time to overcome. It was about thinking I had failed, but not in the sense that I didn't live up to a certain image (of slimness), but that I had failed others. It was entirely in my head. It was never about wanting to be Kate Moss. This is why taking away a fashion magazine would not help at all.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Thursday, 8 December 2005 08:28 (twenty years ago)

@Nathalie, no, I didn;t mean judgements of your appearance per se, but just the pressure of having to do everything right, being afraid of failure, being afraid to look like a fool, feeling lots of guilt and shame and anxiety when not being good enough etc. I meant that most people I know are just symbolizing this in their eating disorder, because it's sth in reality, that you can touch and have an influence upon. So much easier to change than all these ideals you see around you, or all those people telling you you should try harder to bladiblaa.

Eva van Rein (Gaia1981), Thursday, 8 December 2005 09:47 (twenty years ago)

...so we're saying exactly the same thing, I think :P

Eva van Rein (Gaia1981), Thursday, 8 December 2005 09:49 (twenty years ago)

I think the worst thing about this, short of dying, is simply the amount of time you waste when you could be doing better things or thinking about something else. When you notice someone has lost weight, it's after weeks of humdrum dieting, and not being able to concentrate perhaps. Why romanticize fasting?

youn, Saturday, 10 December 2005 16:04 (twenty years ago)

Because in our current (Western) society it shows you have *control* and *discipline*: you can say no to food/temptation.

Nathalie (stevie nixed), Saturday, 10 December 2005 16:11 (twenty years ago)

But is it really like that? Is it up to recovered anorectics to show that it isn't really like that?

youn, Saturday, 10 December 2005 16:14 (twenty years ago)

eighteen years pass...

Thought about having actual lanugo today. You'd be pleased to know to date there are still only 3 Google search results for it

Covfefe and TV (ken c), Saturday, 6 January 2024 22:58 (two years ago)


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