TS: Your mother's musical tastes vs. your father's musical tastes

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Lessee, my dad owned Led Zeppelin II, several Three Dog Night records and Abbey Road on vinyl. My mother was big into Streisand, Melissa Manchester, Boz Scaggs, Broadway tunes and Laura Branigan.

Dad wins in a landslide ...

Chris O'Connor (Chris O'Connor), Sunday, 12 September 2004 03:37 (twenty-one years ago)

Mother: Neil Young, Bob Dylan, Pete Seeger, Gordon Lightfoot, Johnny Cash, Leonard Cohen, Pink Floyd, Crosby Stills and Nash, Steely Dan, CCR, U2, Death Cab For Cutie(!), Wilco, Whiskeytown, Uncle Tupelo

Father: Yes, Pink Floyd, Jethro Tull, Allman Bros., Steely Dan, Otis Rush, BB King, Sonny Boy Williamson, Howlin Wolf, Beck, Ween, Cake, The Stokes, The Transplants(!), Gorrilaz, Sheryl Crow

Hmmmm....tough call

AaronHz (AaronHz), Sunday, 12 September 2004 03:50 (twenty-one years ago)

My dad listens to Helen Reddy, Boy George and REO Speedwagon, and mostly modern country. But my mom's taste in music is so freaking awful that my dad wins by default.

My name is Kenny (My name is Kenny), Sunday, 12 September 2004 03:55 (twenty-one years ago)

Mom: Elvis. Big time. But, as she aged, she started appreciating some of the worst music ever made. I'm talking Michael Bolton, The Salsoul Orchestra, and, most recently, Clay Aiken.

Dad: Dad's the dude who got me into music (well, sparked the interest - my Neil Young-obsessed Uncle took it from there) and his tastes are weird. His favorite band is Black Sabbath - fuckin' LOVES Sabbath. Also heavy into Fleetwood Mac, Eagles, and stuff like that. Here's the catch, though - he was way into collecting disco records in the late 70s, and, in the early nineties, made the move from disco to weird commercial house music (i know that's strange) and started buying records by Snap! and Kathy Denis and shit. He also had an abominable Rick Astley / Billy Ocean period. But these days he rarely listens to music at all.

Neither must like my music very much, because neither one of them has ever even asked to hear any of it.

roger adultery, Sunday, 12 September 2004 03:55 (twenty-one years ago)

they both listen to stuff I don't care about, but where my mom will discuss what specific spanish dialect Enrique Iglesias uses, my dad asks me if I've heard that new song by those black guys (cuz normally he doesn't like them). You know, those black guys. My mom recently revealed she likes the Stones more than the Beatles too. She wins.

manthony m1cc1o (Anthony Miccio), Sunday, 12 September 2004 03:58 (twenty-one years ago)

I'm reminded of this thread :
Based on what your parents listened to in their youth, what do you think they'd listen to if they were young right now?

i.e. the above thread is this thread extrapolated into the present day.
It should be clear from my answer in that thread that this is an easy win for Dad.

Barry Bruner (Barry Bruner), Sunday, 12 September 2004 04:06 (twenty-one years ago)

Mum: not _seriously_into music, but liked: Dylan, Waits, Cohen, Stones.

Dad: into beating up his wife and drinking.

Who wins??

Ja, Sunday, 12 September 2004 04:13 (twenty-one years ago)

Mom : Soft Rock, Billy Joel, Jon Secada, Early Whitney Houston. She will always talk about the time she was offered weed at a Dylan concert (and how seeing a concert at Jones Beach was a horrible experience). Thinks a lot of music today is too harsh and dissonant, but usually listens with a open mind. I explained her the idea of Ambient music and she loves it.

Dad : Tony Bennett, Pre-1964 Beatles, Gloria Estefan, JP Sousa, a lot of bizarre schmaltzy songs that he only knows one line from. Thinks I listen to a lot of "weird shit", and once fell asleep while I played him a new song I just wrote. Constantly hints that he wants a player piano.

I have both of them to thank for my easy listening fetish, but I think Mom has the edge. I think my music obsession gene is sort of a fluke for my family.

Michael F Gill (Michael F Gill), Sunday, 12 September 2004 04:16 (twenty-one years ago)

all my previously held opinions about my parents' erstwhile left-of-center tastes are now rendered null and void by way of the fact that all they listen to now is BAD CONTEMPORARY VOCAL JAZZ TURNED ALL THE WAY UP BECAUSE THEY'RE LOSING THEIR HEARING.

stockholm cindy (Jody Beth Rosen), Sunday, 12 September 2004 04:20 (twenty-one years ago)

Get them some Blossom Dearie!

Michael F Gill (Michael F Gill), Sunday, 12 September 2004 04:27 (twenty-one years ago)

Mom wins: she likes Beatles, Beach Boys, Simon and Garfunkel and all that. I grew up on it and expanded it into my psych and power-pop fetishes.

Mike Ouderkirk (Mike Ouderkirk), Sunday, 12 September 2004 04:39 (twenty-one years ago)

Mother: Evanessence, Three Doors Down, Seether, Enya, Phil Collins

Father: 'smooth jazz,' the Average White Band, the Neville Bros. but saved by Rolling Stones, southern-rock, etc.

miloauckerman (miloauckerman), Sunday, 12 September 2004 04:50 (twenty-one years ago)

Ja, your dad totally wins.

roger adultery, singer for The Who, Sunday, 12 September 2004 04:59 (twenty-one years ago)

I bet he listens to Hall and Oates

David Allen (David Allen), Sunday, 12 September 2004 05:03 (twenty-one years ago)

My mother is a huge fan of "American Idol".

My dad knew all the words to the song "El Paso".

My mother actually LIKES Celine Dion.

My dad couldn't very much tolerate rock music from the '60s onward.

My mother is a fan of Tejano, mariachi music, and Luis Miguel.

My dad -- well, he loved Tejano, sure, but not mariachi, and certainly not Luis Miguel.

I think my dad won here.

Many Coloured Halo (Dee the Lurker), Sunday, 12 September 2004 05:13 (twenty-one years ago)

I got my mom hooked on In the Nursery and my dad on Jimmie Dale Gilmore and Dale Watson. Therefore, I win!

Ned Raggett (Ned), Sunday, 12 September 2004 12:07 (twenty-one years ago)

Ok, their record collections when i was a kid-

Dad- On the good side: Frank Sinatra, Nancy Sinatra, Charlie Parker, Herb Alpert... on the bad side Moody Blues, Ten Years After

Mum- On the good side: Beatles, Carpenters, Elvis Presley, the Hair soundtrack... on the bad side, disco stuff like Boney M.

umm... a draw??

Officer Pupp, Sunday, 12 September 2004 12:09 (twenty-one years ago)

Mom: Buena Vista Social Club, Cesaria Evora, Nina Simone, Supremes, Elton John, smoked too much pot to The Who's "Tommy," loves Josh Groban more than her own son, Celine Dion, thinks Christina Aguilera is the heir apparent to her Motown favorites.

Dad: Jimmie Rodgers, Hank Williams, Carter Family, American Anthology of Folk, Gillian Welch, smoked too much pot to The Who's "Tommy," hates Johnny Cash with a passion, can't stand music authored by Black people after 1930, once traumitized me by yanking my cassette of Kraftwerks' "Computer World" out of the stereo during a car trip and throwing it out the window.

I'd say it's a draw.

ng, Sunday, 12 September 2004 13:32 (twenty-one years ago)

on the bad side, disco stuff like Boney M.

does not compute

stockholm cindy (Jody Beth Rosen), Sunday, 12 September 2004 13:51 (twenty-one years ago)

My dad is pretty rockist.
My mom isn't.

My dad likes more things I like though.

My mom likes Chris Isaak and Bruce Springsteen
My dad likes Taj Mahal and Bob Dylan...

toss up.

djdee2005 (djdee2005), Sunday, 12 September 2004 14:09 (twenty-one years ago)

And they both love motown stax etc.

djdee2005 (djdee2005), Sunday, 12 September 2004 14:10 (twenty-one years ago)

Wait, what's wrong with the Salsoul Orchestra.

Hari Ashurst (Toaster), Sunday, 12 September 2004 14:25 (twenty-one years ago)

my mother: liked patsy cline, the beatles (although she didn't actually have any beatles albums when I was a kid), david bowie, paul simon, stevie nicks

dad: buck owens and merle haggard. this turned into liking just any old shit country later on in life though.

kyle (akmonday), Sunday, 12 September 2004 14:49 (twenty-one years ago)

Mum - mainstream classic rock/pop, one album-a-year type

Dad - classical, insane Balkan folk music

Both have their merits but neither have paticularly influence what I've listened to for the past fifteen years

Ben Dot (1977), Sunday, 12 September 2004 20:28 (twenty-one years ago)

Mom: Mission of burma, and anything else with Clint

Dad: DK, Minor Threat, Iggy Pop and the Stooges, Queen, Led Zepplin

Maybe my dad

Aja (aja), Sunday, 12 September 2004 20:32 (twenty-one years ago)

Mom: Carole King, James Taylor, Cat Stevens, Michael Feinstein, Diana Krall.

Dad: the Young Rascals, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Jethro Tull, Steel Pulse, Donna Summer, Soft Cell (well, he owned the 12" of "Tainted Love" at one point).

Between the two, I'd probably go with my Dad,......but he's a king-sized prick whose throat I'd like to slit, so fuck that.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Sunday, 12 September 2004 21:09 (twenty-one years ago)

HI AJA!

my dad has better musical taste than my mom.

Eisbär (llamasfur), Monday, 13 September 2004 00:43 (twenty-one years ago)

Mom: Black gospel music, early beatles, bluegrass, shitty christian pop music, anything with lots of jesus in it that isn't too rocky. She thinks that Jimi Hendrix 'screamed too much.' Did Hendrix ever scream?

Dad: Big band jazz, bach, U2. I think a lot of parents love U2 because they feel its a safe way to like 'young music' (who doesn't love U2, right?) And a lot of parents (and casual music listeners) seem to love Coldplay. I love quite a bit of U2 (and hate quite a bit) and think Coldplay is decent, but people should really be a little less safe. well i dunno...

Star Cauliflower (Star Cauliflower), Monday, 13 September 2004 00:55 (twenty-one years ago)

Mom: Sinatra, Patsy Cline, Willie Nelson, Kitaro, Italian opera, John Denver, the Beatles, Enya, and her most recent discovery, Josh Grobin.

Dad: Arabic music, Elvis, Sinatra, Willie Nelson, Italian opera, a bit of Johnny Cash, and singers like Roberta Flack.

Hard to pick a side -- their tastes are so... parent-ish.

Je4nne ƒury (Jeanne Fury), Monday, 13 September 2004 01:07 (twenty-one years ago)

Dad, all the way, but Mum likes Philip Glass.

Disturbingly, they both had a record of the 'Oklahoma!' musical

Sasha (sgh), Monday, 13 September 2004 04:02 (twenty-one years ago)

Reviving so all can enjoy the tale of ng's dad throwing the cassette of Computer World out the car window.

Mom: Elvis, Everlys, Buddy Holly, Bobby Vee, Frankie Lymon, Lynn Anderson, Carpenters, Alan Jackson. Singles.
Dad: Tom Lehrer, Julie London, Merle Haggard, Johnny Cash, Charlie Pride. Albums.

Pretty much a toss-up.

briania (briania), Monday, 13 September 2004 19:25 (twenty-one years ago)

Mum: Beatles, Stones, Merseybeat.
Dad: Gospel, modern country, flute bands, Scottish traditional.

So, barring minor exceptions like Dave Berry's "Don't Give Me No Lip, Child" on Mum's side of the argument, Dad wins hands down, obviously.

aldo_cowpat (aldo_cowpat), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 07:32 (twenty-one years ago)

Dad: Beatles, Stones, Dylan, Blue Cheer, Hendrix, Bob Marley, Leftfield, psy-trance

Mum: Dylan, Joni Mitchell, Joan Baez, Van Morrison, Van Der Graaf Generator, Caravan, Talking Heads, Tom Lehrer, Bonzo Dog Band, Ivor Cutler, Eurhythmics, Steely Dan. Tough call, I think my mum just shades it (my dad lending me the White Album and Vincebus Eruptum for abt 2 years makes it closer than it would have been)

DJ Mencap0))), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 07:53 (twenty-one years ago)

Mother: The Monkees, Cliff Richard, Gilbert O'Sullivan, Dean Martin
Dad: The worst faux-rock and roll Italianate music ever recorded. Adriano Celentano, Little Tony, Gianni Morandi, awful. Oh, and Suzi Quatro.

Score draw.

Dom Passantino (Dom Passantino), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 08:38 (twenty-one years ago)

I like the sound of "Little Tony". I bet he had to beat 'em off with a shitty stick

DJ Mencap0))), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 09:16 (twenty-one years ago)

mum: lighthouse family, prefab sprout, leonard cohen, pulp, the waterboys, hall and oates, chris rea.

dad: lighthouse family, prefab sprout, leonard cohen, pulp, the waterboys, hall and oates, chris rea.

a tie

weasel diesel (K1l14n), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 09:28 (twenty-one years ago)

Mom: When I was young, it was Boston, Fleetwood Mac, Journey. Now it's Josh Groban, Andrea Boccelli (probably misspelled), Charlotte Church, Andrew Lloyd Webber soundtracks and any sort of milquetoast MOR crap there is out there.

Dad: When I was young, it was Beatles, Blondie, REO Speedwagon and pre-Pet Sounds Beach Boys. Now my dad listens to nothin'.

righteousmaelstrom, Tuesday, 14 September 2004 14:44 (twenty-one years ago)

I think it's a tie.

righteousmaelstrom, Tuesday, 14 September 2004 14:44 (twenty-one years ago)

mom - grew up listening to rock n roll/motown(hung around her uncle's radio station and says her uncle was the first dj to introduce Elvis to Chicago) Casual fan of Beatles, Santana, Steppenwolf, as far as rock goes. Undemanding listener of soft rock radio since 70's I guess, as radio has devolved so has her taste, steady diet of Celine and Richard Marx and Faith Hill or whatever

Dad - hard to get a bead on, listened to same rock n roll, doo wop, then soul and jazz, listened to soul a lot when I was growing up but turned to smooth """""jazz""""" and its ilk in the late 80's. Worships Sade, could be worse

Dad wins cuz he still goes to concerts

tremendoid, Tuesday, 14 September 2004 15:34 (twenty-one years ago)

mom: simon and garfunkel, gillian welch, the band
dad: doc watson, tony rice, norman blake, the rolling stones, the beatles, leo kottke, gordon lightfoot

tough call - probably my dad, for his devotion to his musical tastes, though. and cause he saw the stones in '65.

so far, dj mencap's dad is the best for his blue cheer fandom.

peter smith (plsmith), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 15:43 (twenty-one years ago)

Mum: Beatles, Elvis, Dave Clark Five, Abba, Searchers, Herman's Hermits, Gerry & The Pacemakers...

Dad: Stones, Kinks, Buddy Holly, Small Faces, Rod Stewart, Elvis, Johnny Cash, Abba, Blondie, ELO, Genesis, Roy Orbison...

I think I'll vote for Mum because she used to sing Kate Bush songs at New Year parties.

Onimo (GerryNemo), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 15:45 (twenty-one years ago)

i wish my parents liked abba.

peter smith (plsmith), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 15:46 (twenty-one years ago)

Both my parents were Abba crazy, actually.

Alex in NYC (vassifer), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 16:29 (twenty-one years ago)

mom: streisand, sinatra and -- as i found out only recently -- hank williams. i knew about streisand and sinatra 'cause she talks about 'em all the time. but she never talks about hank, and i never knew 'cause my dad had 100 percent control of the audio both at home and in the car.

dad: musicals -- especially andrew lloyd webber -- and allen sherman.

mom in a landslide, though i do have a healthy appreciation for allen sherman, and though dad could have gained extra points by simply liking better musicals.

fact checking cuz (fcc), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 16:39 (twenty-one years ago)

you could probably get your dad into the scott walker brel covers...

peter smith (plsmith), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 16:42 (twenty-one years ago)

actually my dad had a tape of "jacques brel is alive and well and living in paris" -- the broadway revue version of brel -- that he played for like a year nonstop in the car. that's where i first heard brel. i'm not sure what he'd make of scott walker, but i should try!

fact checking cuz (fcc), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 16:45 (twenty-one years ago)

Also, my folks both liked Neil Diamond, and since Dad liked him more than Mom, that's always made Neil cool to me.

One nice word about Mom: I bought her Dyaln's "Love and Theft" record a few years back and she enjoyed it. Hmmmmm ...

Chris O., Tuesday, 14 September 2004 16:48 (twenty-one years ago)

Dad; Miles Davis, Charlie Parker, John Coltrane, Thelonious Monk, et al. He never really listened to rock music except for a few early Chuck Berry and Little Richard singles that were released when he was in his early 20s, though he later developed an abiding love for old soul and motown.
He also borrowed a Fugazi CD from me back in 1992 for some sort of extended joke on his students.

Mom: Kenny Rogers. Celine Dion. Whatever's on the radio.

Clear winner: Dad.

Bruce S. Urquhart (BanjoMania), Tuesday, 14 September 2004 19:34 (twenty-one years ago)


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