R.E.M. Find the River. Your thoughts.

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This has always been one of my favorite songs, and judging from a search, it's well-regarded among others.

I love discussing individual songs, right down to the bone. Like..."at 3:03, the song shifts into a..." I love that.

So...Find the River. It's one of those songs that is painted in very broad strokes. Images of loss, of leaving, of hopelessness, but also strength and courage (ha) and vision in the face of despair.

Or not.

Back in my alt.music.rem days, I remember this song being dissected in terms of James Joyce. I don't know if I wanna go that far. But I'd love whatever random thoughts you have on the music, the lyrics, the meaning, the feeling.

Justin Shumaker (shueytexas), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 06:36 (twenty years ago)

I will say that REM consistently has killer final songs on their albums. Usually the last two are among the best two. "Nightswimming" and "Find the River" are an incredible pair. My take on the latter was always that the youthful skinnydipping escapades of the latter evolve into the poignant if painful reflections about going out to seek one's way without the company of all the party people from your college days. The water imagery the two songs share, and stories the various band members have told in interviews about "Nightswimming," lead me to jump to these conclusions.

the consular horse, Wednesday, 15 March 2006 06:46 (twenty years ago)

"Nightswimming" >>>>>>> "Find the River"

I've always considered "Find the River" to be one of the weakest songs on AFTP.

NoTimeBeforeTime (Barry Bruner), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 06:54 (twenty years ago)

I don't know it well enough to do the deep textual reading you suggest, but I've always liked "Find the River." It may lack the gravity of "Drive" and the poignancy of "Nightswimming," but it has a sweetness and a redemptive quality that appeals to me. It's a great 'album track' and a fine closer to AFTP.

Myke. (Myke Weiskopf), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 07:01 (twenty years ago)

I am amazed by Stipe's voice on that record, and on "Nightswimming" and "Find the River" in particular; I always wonder how good the more recent R.E.M. records would be if he still had that voice. And Mills' backing vox are beautiful.

mrjosh (mrjosh), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 12:02 (twenty years ago)

From the Wikipedia article:

"I had the idea that Bill and I would go in and do some harmonies without listening to each other. It’s great because mine is this incredibly angst-ridden emotional thing, and Bill’s is this really low-key sort of ambling part. They’re two opposite ends of the spectrum but they’re both on there, and it’s a beautiful thing.” (Mike Mills)

Justin Shumaker (shueytexas), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 15:13 (twenty years ago)

this is a great song.

AaronK (AaronK), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 15:41 (twenty years ago)

I remember reading an interview with Stipe when the album came out, and he said that he and Mike Mills (I think) would drive around Miami (I think) during the recording, in a convertible with the top down, just singing this song together at the top of their lungs. I always think of this scene, and the pure joy of singing implied, whenever I hear this song. Whenever Stipe's voice breaks on the high notes, I get chills.

gooblar (gooblar), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 16:23 (twenty years ago)

I have no idea what the song's about, but I do get enormous pleasure from Stipe and Mills' vocals.

Alfred, Lord Sotosyn (Alfred Soto), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 16:32 (twenty years ago)

"Country Feedback" should have been the final song on "Out of Time," no? Now that's a great song.

Josh in Chicago (Josh in Chicago), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 19:05 (twenty years ago)

"Country Feedback" should have been the final song on "Out of Time," no?

I liked "Endgame" at the time, but now I find it to be a bit of a trifle.

Myke. (Myke Weiskopf), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 20:33 (twenty years ago)

"Country Feedback" is terrific, but I love "Me In Honey" (the song that does end -Out of Time-) just as much. It's a simple two chord rave-up, literally - I'm pretty sure there's no third chord in there. I think it's just Buck switching from A minor to D minor. And it sounds great (and a heck of a lot better than "Shiny Happy People," to say the least).

James, Wednesday, 15 March 2006 20:44 (twenty years ago)

It's definitely one of my favorite R.E.M. songs, and certainly my favorite song from Automatic For The People. I've seen them perform the song twice, and both times it felt very special.

Matthew C Perpetua (inca), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 20:48 (twenty years ago)

It's a simple two chord rave-up, literally - I'm pretty sure there's no third chord in there.

"LEEEFT ME ALOOOOOOOONE...WHAT IT'S DOIN' TO MEEEEEEEEEEEE"

Isn't there a chord change there?

Justin, Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:03 (twenty years ago)

Yup, it's 1-4-5, with the 5 appearing for 2 bars on "alooone." I'm pretty sure it's in a major key, too.

joseph cotten (joseph cotten), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:27 (twenty years ago)

Find the River is one of my favourite songs (if not favourite) by a band who I used to be quite keen on.
A tune that just makes me blub. About nothing in particular.it just creates this painless, sadness that many of my other favourite songs evoke. That's probably melancholia to you literary types.

Man, that band could have been truly great.

IMHO,REM have a 25% success rate with their songs

Jessie the Drunk Dutch Mountain Dog (Jessie the Drunk Dutch Mountai), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:16 (twenty years ago)

"Me In Honey" always stuck me as REM copping a Feelies.

doug watson (solid air), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:46 (twenty years ago)

Man, that band could have been truly great.

Oh, I dunno. I think they did all right for themselves.

Myke. (Myke Weiskopf), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:11 (twenty years ago)

"Texarkana" is actually one of the key R.E.M. songs that gets me where it counts, which seems to be an answer entirely unique to me.

Myke. (Myke Weiskopf), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:12 (twenty years ago)

Myke

The point I failed to make was that they would be a really great band if you stripped away the filler.

They have more 'great' songs than most bands.Timeless too.
REM have sold more units than any band I like

Not even aware of 'texarkana' though which shows you what a sloppy fan i am> Which album? I lost interest with Monster . Bought one or two since but they failed to engage me

Jessie the Drunk Dutch Mountain Dog (Jessie the Drunk Dutch Mountai), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:31 (twenty years ago)

"Texarkana" is off Out of Time.

It sounds like driving through the south in rain.

Justin, Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:33 (twenty years ago)

Then again, that's kinda broad for R.E.M. stuff. But I'll OTM myself anyway. :)

Justin, Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:33 (twenty years ago)

I must go back to Out of Time to check that song. I always thought 'Near wild Heaven' would have been a great song if it had a better chorus.

Driving through the south in the rain is possibly different in TX or Athens Ga to where i come (Hull, England)from but I will do my best to envisage when I drag the track out.

Austin Tx rules btw imho etc etc EMOs!!!!

Jessie the Drunk Dutch Mountain Dog (Jessie the Drunk Dutch Mountai), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:41 (twenty years ago)

The point I failed to make was that they would be a really great band if you stripped away the filler.

It is often said of great artists, writers, anyone - that they arrive at the truly great stuff, the stuff on which their legend is made, only through a rigorous process of discarding a whole lot of crap that the consumer or the legend-maker never gets to see (or chooses to ignore). It just so happens that, the pop business being the insatiable machine it is, more of the subpar stuff sneaks through nowadays. :-) If you boiled R.E.M.'s best down to its very essence (importantly, that list is different for everyone, as we're learning here), they are hard to surpass.

Myke. (Myke Weiskopf), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:49 (twenty years ago)

But why would you want to boil down ANY great band "to its very essence"? Filler, album tracks, abominations -- it's the mistakes that make a great band!

Funny: I listen to Out of Time far more than Automatic... these days; it's an easier listen. Although I never want to hear "Everybody Hurts" and "Man on the Moon" again, the back-to-back sequence of "Sweetness Follows" and "Monty's Got A Raw Deal" are Murmur-era poetry with Document-era clarity, and for reasons I can't fully fathom, deeply, mysteriously moving now that I'm past 30.

Alfred, Lord Sotosyn (Alfred Soto), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:53 (twenty years ago)

But why would you want to boil down ANY great band "to its very essence"? Filler, album tracks, abominations -- it's the mistakes that make a great band!

I agree that you have to take an artist's body of work in full context, warts and all, rather than just returning to the worn old chestnuts time and again. I was mostly attempting to find a common cultural precedent for Jessie's comment ("they would be a really great band if you stripped away the filler") and suggesting a theory for how "canons" are determined, rather than endorsing the same as a sound approach to evaluating a band's "importance."

There are a number of bands whose mistakes and toss-offs I actually prefer to the more widely-stroked stuff. I think most of the innovation happens in those moments when people aren't "looking."

And I agree, the closer one gets to 30 (and beyond), the more resonant a lot of music becomes. On the one hand, I have an attention span about *this* long for pop trends, but I've bonded for life with so much more.

Myke. (Myke Weiskopf), Thursday, 16 March 2006 00:00 (twenty years ago)

"Monty's Got A Raw Deal" is incredibly underrated. Great melody, great phonetic lyrics, and it's the one time where Scott Litt does something completely, gloriously bizarre with the drum sound.

joseph cotten (joseph cotten), Thursday, 16 March 2006 00:34 (twenty years ago)

Weird. REM are so fuckin weird.

But my pet favorite is "New Test Leper." And I like "Find the River," though not nearly as much as other folks. "Nightswimming" is a bit too much for me now, but... it is their best song.

trees (treesessplode), Thursday, 16 March 2006 04:19 (twenty years ago)

Re: Me in Honey. It's just two chords, but they're flat.

dan. (dan.), Thursday, 16 March 2006 06:12 (twenty years ago)

Huh?

joseph cotten (joseph cotten), Thursday, 16 March 2006 06:17 (twenty years ago)

Two chords or twelve, "Me In Honey" is bloody excellent. I'd love to see an ultimate TS or tournament of REM album-ender cuts, but it's past bedtime already so I don't feel like making a list of them all...

Doctor Casino (Doctor Casino), Thursday, 16 March 2006 08:00 (twenty years ago)

REM album closers in order (hey, I've nothing better to do in my temp job!)

West Of The Fields (not one of the best tracks on Murmur, which still means it's brilliant. One of the more strident songs on there, but still mysterious. A fine, punchy closer.)
Little America (again, a more straightahead, rockin' tune. Not one of the albums best, but drives the album to a exciting conclusion)
Wendell Gee (Great song and the first of REM's downbeat closers, which suits the album's mood to a tee)
Superman (The most fun REM album closer evah!)
Oddfellows Local 151 (The weirdest, most angular album closer. The long, tortured fade out is a very effective way of going out)
Untitled (More of a goofy throwaway, with Buck on drums and Berry on guitar. Sweet Mike Mills melody)
Me In Honey (Great two chord rave up about parenthood. It's both adult and youthful, so represents a mid-career watershed in a sense)
Find The River (Beautiful, reassuring - perfect closer for the album)
You (Cos of the two lumpen rockers that preceed it, the song seems buried away somewhat. It's the weirdest REM song of the 90s though. Nice skronky geetar from Buck)
Electrolite (Lovely, and as someone pointed out elsewhere, had they split up after this, it would have been a great epitaph: "I'm not scared, I'm out of here."
Falls To Climb (I really like this one, even if it is a bit woe is me. When the snare pattern comes in Stipe gains confidence, to moving effect)
Beachball (Fussed over languid Beach Boys go bossa trifle. No tune. Yo La Tengo do this sort of thing sooo much better)
Around The Sun (never heard it - can't imagine it's much cop)

stew!, Thursday, 16 March 2006 11:10 (twenty years ago)

I remember a very astute review of -New Adventures in Hi Fi- (published in Request Magazine, of all places). that praised "Electrolite" and zeroed in on Stipe name dropping James Dean (thumbs down from the critic) and Steve McQueen (thumbs up from the critic). I can't remember who the writer was, but he suggested that R.E.M. had two paths to take in the future, McQueens (quality work) or Dean's (shallow cult idolatry) - implying that the band had done both in the past. I'm not sure R.E.M. has followed either path since then, but the review read beautifully - it was a strong piece of writing.

Also, I'm still convined that "Me in Honey" is only two chords.

James, Thursday, 16 March 2006 15:36 (twenty years ago)

"Nightswimming" is a bit too much for me now, but... it is their best song.

A bit too much how? In a good way or a bad way?

Come on, the Internets wants to know! :)

"These things, they go away...replaced by everyday."

That gets me. Every time. Like now.

Justin Shumaker (shueytexas), Thursday, 16 March 2006 16:40 (twenty years ago)

Justin: It's interesting you parse the lyric that way, I always hear it as "These things they go away, replaced by everyday nightswimming." Which to me is sort of the heart of the song - reflecting on this youthful wild skinny-dipping and being fond of those memories, but also finding some more personal, reflective, non-social type of nightswimming in adulthood. All the concerns of youth - "The fear of getting caught, the recklessness in water, 'they cannot see me naked'" just don't seem so important anymore, for better or worse.

Stew: Oh good, somebody made the list! I'm kind of surprised how many total greats are on there, although I'm no big fan of "Wendell Gee" and frankly the "Untitled" track now seems to me like some sort of half-baked warmup for "Me In Honey," which picks up a similar vibe and adds so much more complexity and emotion. I remember liking "Beachball" okay though when I try to hum it I keep coming up with that pointless b-side "Emphysema." And like you I haven't heard "Around The Sun." But all of the others rank among REM's very best songs - hell, I would dig a career retrospective that ran something like:

1. Superman
2. Electrolite
3. Oddfellows Local 151
4. Find the River
5. Little America
6. Me In Honey
7. You
8. Falls To Climb

Short, and big on long fade-outs and so on, but somehow I think this captures them at their best in all their different modes without containing a single big hit (unless you count Superman)...

Doctor Casino (Doctor Casino), Thursday, 16 March 2006 19:52 (twenty years ago)

I always hear it as "These things they go away, replaced by everyday nightswimming." Which to me is sort of the heart of the song - reflecting on this youthful wild skinny-dipping and being fond of those memories, but also finding some more personal, reflective, non-social type of nightswimming in adulthood. All the concerns of youth - "The fear of getting caught, the recklessness in water, 'they cannot see me naked'" just don't seem so important anymore, for better or worse.

Hmm. I don't hear it that way. I hear it as "...replaced by everyday...nightswimming...remembering that night."

The difference is that "nightswimming" isn't part of the sentence. It's a one-word utterance, a kind of sigh.

I don't hear any of the satisfaction or contentedness that you hear. To me, it's straight-up melancholia and longing for how things were.

It's not "man, those were some good times, but I'm happy here and now."

It's more like "if only those things were my concerns now, instead of all the stuff that adulthood has brought with it."

"I'm not sure all these people understand." - He's surrounded by people who are happy where they are...I picture him at a party, where he's the calm, reflective center of a swirling mass of adult fun.

"I'm pining for the moon." - Anything that reminds him of that time, those nights.

Anyway, great song too. I wish we were in a bar or something so we could REALLY talk this to death. :)

Justin Shumaker (shueytexas), Thursday, 16 March 2006 22:52 (twenty years ago)

I don't think the title track isn't one of the best songs on Around the Sun (their best album since Automatic for the People IMO!). Seems like a kind of afterthought statement, similar to the way "Beachball" ends Reveal. Neither of them are strong closers like "Me in Honey" and "Find the River."

"Me in Honey" really goes back and forth between I and bVII in the verses, though there's a "pedal point" on the tonic note, so it's not really incorrect to say that it's all one chord. The chorus does the same thing on the dominant.

Tim Ellison (Tim Ellison), Friday, 17 March 2006 00:00 (twenty years ago)

Meant to say "I don't think the title track IS one of the best songs on Around the Sun" - sorry.

Tim Ellison (Tim Ellison), Friday, 17 March 2006 00:01 (twenty years ago)

Around the Sun is their best closer since You and maybe Find the River. And it's certainly one of the best songs they've released since New Adventures.

dan. (dan.), Friday, 17 March 2006 01:01 (twenty years ago)

"Find the River" is one of my very favorite REM songs. I can say a lot about it, but will restrict myself to two things.

Thing one: my wife wants this song played (or sung) at her funeral. It is the happiest song about death there is.

Thing two: the intro is sadly almost indistinguishable from the intro to Lisa Loeb song "Stay," and I think they were popular around the same time, which is unfortunate.

The Mad Puffin (The Mad Puffin), Friday, 17 March 2006 01:03 (twenty years ago)

"Find the River" is lovely.

I'm with Justin - I see "Nightswimming" is about going back to something you did as a teenager - skinnydipping - for the first time in many years, and finding that a lot of the magic of it has been lost as you've grown up and have more to think about. But it's not saying that going back to it in adulthood is pointless, just that there's something missing.

clotpoll (Clotpoll), Friday, 17 March 2006 03:58 (twenty years ago)

Thing one: my wife wants this song played (or sung) at her funeral. It is the happiest song about death there is.

I sent my wife an e-mail two weeks ago requesting this very same thing.

It's the closest thing I have to a will. (I should get on that.)

Justin, Friday, 17 March 2006 05:04 (twenty years ago)

I'm planning on faking my own death just to make sure that they're going to play this song.

The Yellow Kid, Friday, 17 March 2006 06:49 (twenty years ago)

I'm just not sold, although I think this discussion is a testament to the song's strength - it's ambiguous, but in a good way...

I guess I'm not hearing where in the song the present-day nightswimming is some sort of letdown or has something missing. Note the opening line of the first two verses - nightswimming deserves a quiet night. Not a rowdy night with the thrill and fear, a quiet one - it's what the swimming deserves...

This is, of course, in large part due to me overlaying my own Athenian nightswimming experiences, and while I'm not exactly at the point of middle-aged reflection, after a couple years and a lot of splashing mania, it's interesting how quickly I find myself at skinny-dipping orgies "laughing quietly, underneath my breath" at all the first-timers and their self-conscious celebration of their liberation or what-have-you. I don't begrudge them their newness to it all, but I also feel like they're on a different kick from me some nights, where I'm just enjoying being in the water, taking in the stars etc and then all of a sudden a posse of sexed-up drunkards takes over the pool. You just have to chuckle and shake your head. "You I cannot judge."

Doctor Casino (Doctor Casino), Friday, 17 March 2006 08:30 (twenty years ago)

Myke, multiple xposts, that is the theory I use when I try to make people laugh, i.e. quantity = quality. It's so true that the more you try, the more success you'll have just by default. There are so many stories about stuff like this but the one I think of the most is the one about Thomas Edison looking for the proper filament metal for a light bulb. So basically, I'm like the Edison of jokes.

regular roundups (Dave M), Friday, 17 March 2006 09:19 (twenty years ago)

"Hey now, little speedyhead,
The read on the speedmeter says
You have to go to task in the city
Where people drown and people serve.
Don't be shy. Your just deserve
Is only just light years to go.

Me, my thoughts are flower strewn
Ocean storm, bayberry moon.
I have got to leave to find my way.
Watch the road and memorize
This life that pass before my eyes.
Nothing is going my way.

The ocean is the river's goal,
A need to leave the water knows
We're closer now than light years to go.

I have got to find the river,
Bergamot and vetiver
Run through my head and fall away.
Leave the road and memorize
This life that pass before my eyes.
Nothing is going my way.

There's no one left to take the lead,
But I tell you and you can see
We're closer now than light years to go.
Pick up here and chase the ride.
The river empties to the tide.
Fall into the ocean.

The river to the ocean goes,
Afortune for the undertow.
None of this is going my way.
There is nothing left to throw
Of Ginger, lemon, indigo,
Coriander stem and rose of hay.
Strength and courage overrides
The privileged and weary eyes
Of river poet search naivete.
Pick up here and chase the ride.
The river empties to the tide.
All of this is coming your way."

PB, Friday, 17 March 2006 14:57 (twenty years ago)


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