C/D: Social visitors perusing your record/CD shelves, more-or-less unasked

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As long as the shelves are on full display in the living room (mine are) and not hidden away behind closed doors, I say browse away. I can't see how it's any more objectionable than leafing through a coffee-table book. Plus, like everyone here, I like to share my opinions, and what better way to indicate that a record's worthy of ownership than by actually OWNING it? So I say CLASSIC, but others may not agree. What say you?

Myonga Von Bontee (Myonga Von Bontee), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:09 (twenty years ago)

gareth does this

team jaxon (jaxon), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:12 (twenty years ago)

i like to look through people's collections and let out audible sighs.

gritty sanskrit (sanskrit), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:16 (twenty years ago)

I peruse others' collections and silently judge, and expect that others do the same with mine.

Joseph McCombs (Joseph McCombs), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:18 (twenty years ago)

i don't think anyone has ever looked thru my records or CDs. i don't discourage it or anything. maybe i just don't know a lot of musically curious people.

scott seward (scott seward), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:21 (twenty years ago)

i've never had anyone over

Susan Douglas (Susan Douglas), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:25 (twenty years ago)

i've never had anyone over

Isn't that a Morrissey song?

Myke. (Myke Weiskopf), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:27 (twenty years ago)

its my song. boo hoo hooooo. morrissey'll have to fight me for it!

Susan Douglas (Susan Douglas), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:29 (twenty years ago)

But someone might steal all my rare metal 7 inches and out of print albums!!!

James Slone (Freon Trotsky), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:31 (twenty years ago)

Jax0n does this.

Steve Shasta (Steve Shasta), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:33 (twenty years ago)

But someone might steal all my rare metal 7 inches and out of print albums!!!

But, erm, wouldn't you notice?

Myke. (Myke Weiskopf), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:39 (twenty years ago)

gareth and jaxon can go thru my stacks anyday. rowwrr rowwrr!

scott seward (scott seward), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:41 (twenty years ago)

i feel bad when they don't recognize anything, not that i have really wierd tastes, but like for non-music retard people it's always like i've been unmasked as some sort of douche that has sir lord baltimore and love as laughter or whatever stupid crap i own. it's uncomfortable.

M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:42 (twenty years ago)

looking through people's books/records/cds is a preferred method of appearing calm and comfortable at house parties where i'm feeling socially anxious. perfect for getting through those awkward early moments before you've got enough drink in you to stop caring.

andrew m. (andrewmorgan), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:46 (twenty years ago)

andrew m. OTM.

great for parties...i bought a new huge cd shelf that actually held all of my cds ( i already need another one)...but had a party not long after arranging my cds on it --- strictly alphabetical...tried genres, crashed and burned --- i would say 50% of the party was people talking about music...it was near the stereo and i let anyone be dj, so it was cool to see who was into what...and more importantly how fucked some people's ideas of "party music" are and why they probably shouldn't ever be allowed to be the dj.

bobby.lasers (bobby.lasers), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 21:50 (twenty years ago)

When my wife and I were house hunting, I would always look at the CDs in the places we checked out. It was always, like, "The Lion King," Spin Doctors, Billy Joel's Greatest Hits, some country CD (Garth/Shania), Andrew Lloyd Webber and one wild card: Stone Temple Pilots, Pearl Jam, Tori Amos, Jars of Clay, etc. So I say classic, if only to be reminded that most people only buy one or two CDs every couple of years (and the same ones, at that) and then think how much money/space that approach would save you.

Josh in Chicago (Josh in Chicago), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:22 (twenty years ago)

I'm guilty of going through Jax0n's iPod.

Steve Shasta (Steve Shasta), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:24 (twenty years ago)

I plead guilty in doing this all of the time. I might find something that's interesting or that I've not heard and strike up a conversation with the CD's owner.

It's totally dud on the other hand, if someone looks through my collection and says something along the lines of "Wow. You have a lot of music. You know who I bet you'd like? Jack Johnson!!"

righteousmaelstrom (righteousmaelstrom), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:43 (twenty years ago)

You know who I bet you'd like? Jack Johnson!!"

your response: "Yeah, Miles Davis is so amazing."
their response: *slowly backs away*

erklie (erklie), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:49 (twenty years ago)

totally dud is to begin to fall in love with a woman, then browse through a pile of atrocious cds at her apartment, then grin and bear it because you care too much for her already.

gritty sanskrit (sanskrit), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:52 (twenty years ago)

"is that My Humps?, great.."

gritty sanskrit (sanskrit), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:52 (twenty years ago)

"oh I didn't know Deepak Chopra sang"

gritty sanskrit (sanskrit), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:53 (twenty years ago)

M@tt He1geson OTM. The comment I get most is "I've never seen so many CDs I've never heard of before."

The other subset is the young metalhead demographic. Often I will become friendly with young'uns through my job and sometimes they will come over. When they see the collection, they generally shit themselves. I don't even think it's that impressive, but whatever.

Actually, there seems to be in every city I've lived in at least one person aged 18-24 who, when I discuss seeing Kreator and Coronor together, or Sanctuary, or Sepultura's first-ever US show (things like that) that they get glazed looks of jealousy on their face.

I don't mind people looking at the collection. Except the vinyl because it's in such lousy shape. I'm embarrassed. :(

Brian O'Neill (NYCNative), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:54 (twenty years ago)

I had a house guest this week that did this two days straight. We have really similar tastes in weird psych and drone. It was kind of exhausting. Pretty dud in that situation, but perfectly acceptable in almost every other.

Tripmaker (SDWitzm), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:54 (twenty years ago)

I think anyone looking inside your closet for anything is dud. But I figure anything left outside, including books, DVDs, CDs, are fair game. Plus, I'm proud of my records, and I kinda like showing them off. Of course, I can't imagine any of my friends being impressed by my records so maybe I'm projecting. Anyway, classic.

musically (musically), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 22:55 (twenty years ago)


So what? I have so much shit people couldn't possible keep track of it all. Now if they broke in and looked at it all, that's another story.....

patrick bateman (mickeygraft), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:19 (twenty years ago)

You know who I bet you'd like? Jack Johnson!!"

your response: "Yeah, Miles Davis is so amazing."
their response: *slowly backs away*

-- erklie (erklie50...), March 15th, 2006

Haha. Yes! Problem solved!!


righteousmaelstrom (righteousmaelstrom), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:46 (twenty years ago)

I've made some of my best friends by perusing their collections on random visits to their homes, or vice-versa. And I made my way through more than a few awkward college parties by doing the same.

Myke. (Myke Weiskopf), Wednesday, 15 March 2006 23:53 (twenty years ago)

I do this. Don't think I judge, though (unless it's someone I know well and I can laugh at them). It's interesting. My record collection used to be immaculately ordered, but I've been down and busy recently, and now it's all over the place. That's really depressing.

emil.y (emil.y), Thursday, 16 March 2006 00:57 (twenty years ago)

It's basically just like dogs sniffing each other's butts.

Abbadavid Berman (Hurting), Thursday, 16 March 2006 01:56 (twenty years ago)

(Huh, just noticed the inaccuracy of the thread's title - a classic active/passive screwup. "Unasked" probably should've been "without asking". "Uninvited" would've worked nicely, too. But y'all knew what I meant, anyways...)

Myonga Von Bontee (Myonga Von Bontee), Thursday, 16 March 2006 10:15 (twenty years ago)

I actually don't mind this, I guess it could be flattering if somebody finds something worth pulling out and examining further. But what I DON'T like is when somebody is browsing, and then they try to pigeonhole your musical tastes, trying to make it seem as if they are more educated than you.

xgurggleglgllg (xgurggleglgllg), Thursday, 16 March 2006 10:36 (twenty years ago)

I do this, but I am sweetly non-critcial - except for my friend J who owns not one, but three Anastacia albums.

Then again (and I am in no way an obscurist and my collection is somewhere in the 300-400 CD region, so not huge) I always feel bad when I encourage people to do this and it goes wrong. If you're cooking or pouring drinks or looking for corkscrew of whatever and you say "Put some music on! You choose." And they look at everything and then say "I haven't heard of most of it."

Anna (Anna), Thursday, 16 March 2006 11:26 (twenty years ago)

And they look at everything and then say "I haven't heard of most of it."

I'm afraid I've gotten to the point where they're now scrolling through iTunes rather than looking through actual CDs, but this usually divides in two types of people:

1) the ones who sheepishly opt for something safe that they've actually heard of, even if they know it's starkly inappropriate for the circumstances; or

2) the ones who invariably pick the one with the most eye-catching song or album title, thus often sending shock waves of cataclysmic electronic noise through the apartment (because who wouldn't choose a song called "9V DC Supply with Homemade Copper Solenoid (Unidentified VLF Radio Noise)"?)

Myke. (Myke Weiskopf), Thursday, 16 March 2006 13:38 (twenty years ago)

I would be shocked if a single person on ILX found this a dud.

Mitya (mitya), Thursday, 16 March 2006 13:49 (twenty years ago)

"Unasked" probably should've been "without asking".

"Would you mind taking a moment to peruse my CD shelves?"

Abbadavid Berman (Hurting), Thursday, 16 March 2006 13:53 (twenty years ago)

dud if it's strangers doing the perusing; whereas friends, even those from abroad who have never actually perused my shelves, (a) know what i've got anyway and (b) have heard (of) most of it.

Marcello Carlin (nostudium), Thursday, 16 March 2006 13:59 (twenty years ago)

"God, do you think you have enough _______* CDs?"

-uh, well, you know, they keep making them....


(*Fall, Bowie, Neil Young, etc...)

Dave NSFW (dave225.3), Thursday, 16 March 2006 14:04 (twenty years ago)

"Unasked" probably should've been "without asking".
"Would you mind taking a moment to peruse my CD shelves?"

-- Abbadavid Berman

"No? I see...Well then, I've got a big bowl full of candy, why don't you eat it?"

Myonga Von Bontee (Myonga Von Bontee), Thursday, 16 March 2006 15:46 (twenty years ago)

Then again (and I am in no way an obscurist and my collection is somewhere in the 300-400 CD region, so not huge) I always feel bad when I encourage people to do this and it goes wrong. If you're cooking or pouring drinks or looking for corkscrew of whatever and you say "Put some music on! You choose." And they look at everything and then say "I haven't heard of most of it."

That's not the problem with putting CDs on in your house - the problem is every time you find something you want to listen to, you open the case and the CD HAS GONE MISSING!

The Boring Machine (kate), Thursday, 16 March 2006 15:50 (twenty years ago)

Or they put on Bad Company's Greatest Hits that you have because you found it in your yard.*


*not a true story.

Dave NSFW (dave225.3), Thursday, 16 March 2006 15:53 (twenty years ago)

(I do this all the time, though. I just can't help it. Bookshelves, too. I'm so nosey. But generally more curious than judgemental, in a "ooh, I always wondered what this sounded like..." way.)

The Boring Machine (kate), Thursday, 16 March 2006 15:54 (twenty years ago)

I do it and think, "man, you have a boring collection." I'm one of those people that you don't want perusing unasked.

Dave NSFW (dave225.3), Thursday, 16 March 2006 16:06 (twenty years ago)

That's not the problem with putting CDs on in your house - the problem is every time you find something you want to listen to, you open the case and the CD HAS GONE MISSING!

-- The Boring Machine

That is a problem in my living room. In my bedroom everything is cased, if it has a case. As for downstairs ... I blmae the flatmates.

Anna (Anna), Thursday, 16 March 2006 16:09 (twenty years ago)

approx 20% of my cds are attached to their rightful case - it is a sure sign that i never listen to them.

If you're cooking or pouring drinks or looking for corkscrew of whatever and you say "Put some music on! You choose." And they look at everything and then say "I haven't heard of most of it."

this is not a problem for me as my destiny's child albums constantly float around near the top of the piles. and if they say they don't like dc, i kick them out, problem solved.

The Lex (The Lex), Thursday, 16 March 2006 16:31 (twenty years ago)


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