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does it turn you on?
if so, are you turned on by receiving or doing it?
and what are your limits? when does it start to turn off?

― marvin guy, Monday, 17 April 2006 07:49 (twenty years ago)

Are you distinguishing between SM sex and more vanilla violent sex?

― Forest Pines (ForestPines), Monday, 17 April 2006 07:54 (twenty years ago)

let's put the SM on the side for a different thread.
more like beating,biting...using force in the "usual" sex

― marvin guy, Monday, 17 April 2006 08:01 (twenty years ago)

I'd argue that there's no sharp division really - anything that involves force like that is automatically non-vanilla even if the participants don't realise that (and wouldn't class it as SM themselves). BDSM is a broad church and doesn't have to involve lots of toys.

Anyway, back to the original questions: a) yes b) I prefer receiving, but I'd say I'm partly switch c) I'm not sure. There aren't many things that definitely squick me, but there are circumstances I haven't experienced where I'm not sure how I'd react.

― Forest Pines (ForestPines), Monday, 17 April 2006 08:20 (twenty years ago)

does it turn YOU on marvin guy?

― ken c (ken c), Monday, 17 April 2006 08:47 (twenty years ago)

pines,are you a male or a female?

― orange count, Monday, 17 April 2006 08:48 (twenty years ago)

yes.
and i prefer to be the active one.
i like to measure the limits of my partner, and checking out how much she could handle, without disliking it.

― marvun guy, Monday, 17 April 2006 08:50 (twenty years ago)

Yes.

― Forest Pines (ForestPines), Monday, 17 April 2006 08:54 (twenty years ago)

I like slapping my GF. when she's in the mood for it. Some violent nipple action. Fun all around.

― Slapp Happyy White, Monday, 17 April 2006 08:58 (twenty years ago)

I like a partner to run me over with a truck.

― Mingus Realty (noodle vague), Monday, 17 April 2006 09:19 (twenty years ago)

try dropping a grand piano on yr dick then you'll be legit.

― M@tt He1geson (Matt Helgeson), Monday, 17 April 2006 17:39 (twenty years ago)

where are the girls who want me to fuck them like i hate them?

― the unbearable lightness of peeing (orion), Monday, 17 April 2006 17:41 (twenty years ago)

i only like rough sex if it's with a stacked woman wearing a hat.

― Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:40 (twenty years ago)

Does rape have anything to do with sex ? Do you really think it is Just power and control?

― Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:41 (twenty years ago)

You mean like Carmen Sandiego? (XP)

― Laurel (Laurel), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:41 (twenty years ago)

You don't talk to them because you hate them
xxpost

― Laura H. (laurah), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:41 (twenty years ago)

laurel now we are going to have not only the random stacked women in hats googlers crawling all over us but the carmen sandiego slash fiends too! IT'S ALL GONE ACCORDING TO PLAN.

― Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:43 (twenty years ago)

i remember these threads too (one of them started by me):

How does sexual fantasy relate to real life sexual desires?
I Got Ta... Kn kn kn know what what's your fanta-ta-zeee

― Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:43 (twenty years ago)

WE MAKE A GOOD TEAM, TRACE. Wait, IS there actually CS slash fic?

― Laurel (Laurel), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:45 (twenty years ago)

Results 1 - 5 of about 7 for "stacked women in hats". (0.49 seconds)

― elmo argonaut (allocryptic), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:49 (twenty years ago)

laurel i would be shocked if there wasn't

― Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:52 (twenty years ago)

http://stacked-hats-bordello.sextease.us/index.htm (not safe for work!)

-- jody (jod...), March 2nd, 2004.

― the enduring pueblo (Jody Beth Rosen), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:54 (twenty years ago)

fuck stacking a hat

― DAMN IT (Haikunym), Monday, 17 April 2006 19:59 (twenty years ago)

like most of my fantasies,(and i don't think im the only one) violent sex is much stronger as a mond fantasy than in real sex.
everything is perfect in fantasy, in real life - theres a real person besides you, and if you love him, it's even more complicated:
emotions and feelings that are not to be considerd during masturbation,got to be considerd during sex.

― asdfgh, Monday, 17 April 2006 21:49 (twenty years ago)

Why do the women who like to be hit turn out to be crazies? It hardly seems fair.

― Ally C (Ally C), Monday, 17 April 2006 23:24 (twenty years ago)

me too, hnym :(

― Tracey Hand (tracerhand), Monday, 17 April 2006 23:44 (twenty years ago)

try dropping a grand piano on yr dick then you'll be legit.

-- M@tt He1geson (matt@game[remove]informer.com), April 17th, 2006.

the Looney Tunes scene is some hardcore shit

― latebloomer (latebloomer), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 00:43 (twenty years ago)

I had sex with a guy a few times who wanted me to whip and beat the living shit out of him. He was never satisfied with the force. It got to the point where I was uncomfortable with hurting another person that much; I told him so and we went back to regular sex.

I guess this might count because it falls into the S&M category.

As for me, I like it when things organically become a little rough. Growling, biting, hair-pulling, a firm-handed grip are all good things if they're not contrived.

― Lovely as Cleopatra's anus may have been, compared to my lady's, hers is a (uncl, Tuesday, 18 April 2006 00:45 (twenty years ago)

I was bitten multiple times to the point of broken skin one night with a girl whose birthday it was. I looked like a bruised piece of chewing gum. Happy Birthday! So, in conclusion: when it is unexpected = dud, otherwise = possibly classic, as long as I don't look like an abused child when it's over.

― regular roundups (Dave M), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:33 (twenty years ago)

but looking like an abused child, on its own, is also classic i say.

― the unbearable lightness of peeing (orion), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:36 (twenty years ago)

its all good as long as both parties feel safe enough to say when its gone far enough, and as long as their limits are respected.

― awesome is as awesome does (lucylurex), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:38 (twenty years ago)

but looking like an abused child, on its own, is also classic i say.

If I don't get a book deal out of it, it's useless to me.

― regular roundups (Dave M), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:39 (twenty years ago)

No Oprah, no credibility.

― regular roundups (Dave M), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:39 (twenty years ago)

you need to make shit up to get a book deal. looks alone will not get you a book deal.

― the unbearable lightness of peeing (orion), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:40 (twenty years ago)

is this really even a question? it's sort of like asking, "hot sauce, c/d?" the people who like hot sauce are going to say c, the people who don't are going to say d. it's more like "all right, who here likes rough, violent sex?"

― Matos-Webster Dictionary (M Matos), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:41 (twenty years ago)

i dunno, the "it's ok if everyone respects each others limits" approach seems to miss the point. but then i dont get off on violent sex.

but isn't the point to be a little out of control? or is it just to simulate it? isn't it supposed to be, well, a little scary? i dont see why we need to domesticate as just a harmless fetish. it is kind of dark and fucked up that people seem to desire this, on either side of it.

i dont mean to imply im judging people who get off on this at all, just that it strikes me as entirely the point that it's kind of not just sex with a little pizazz, but then maybe that's more serious cases and not a little spanking, etc.

― ryan (ryan), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:45 (twenty years ago)

"who here likes rough, violent sex?"

Isn't this just what ALL classic or dud threads do, Matos?

― the unbearable lightness of peeing (orion), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:46 (twenty years ago)

hurts so good. come on baby make it hurt so good. sometimes love don't feel like it should, you make it hurt so good.

― what would john cougar mellencamp say? (lucylurex), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:46 (twenty years ago)

i mean, hot sauce!?! is it really like that? that banal? i guess i dont get it.

― ryan (ryan), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:47 (twenty years ago)

You obviously haven't had the right hotsauce.

― Austin Still (Austin, Still), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:48 (twenty years ago)

i like my sauce like my sex: straight up missionary with lots of onions.

― ryan (ryan), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:50 (twenty years ago)

but isn't the point to be a little out of control? or is it just to simulate it? isn't it supposed to be, well, a little scary?

i can't speak for others, but the point for me is that a little bit of pain in the right context heightens the sensations. i wouldn't want to do it if it were out of control or scarey, that wouldn't be fun or sexy.

― awesome is as awesome does (lucylurex), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:56 (twenty years ago)

i like my sauce like my sex: straight up missionary with lots of onions.

"hey baby, wanna come upstairs and measure my scoville units?"

― the enduring pueblo (Jody Beth Rosen), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 01:57 (twenty years ago)

ok dudes let's not compare any type of sauces to sex ok.

― Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 03:54 (twenty years ago)

Comparing it to Carmen Sandiego, on the other hand, is pretty good. Do it Rockapella etc.

Actually no, I take that back and probably will have nightmares now.

― Allyzay Rofflesbot (allyzay), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 03:54 (twenty years ago)

I love hot sauce.

― Jordan (Jordan), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 03:57 (twenty years ago)

They call her Hot Sauce
she's hot and spicy
but twice as nicey
although she burn me up
they call her Hot Sauce
she's hotter than pepper
I would have kept her
although she burn me up.
What if fire didn't burn (burn!)
how would the lesson get learned? (learned!)
you sit there like a dope until you choke on all the smoke
(smoke gets in your eyes)
cover me in your sauce baby
bury me in all that sauce
smother me in your hot sauce, woman
till smoke come from your thighs.
They call her Hot Sauce
she's hot and spicy
but twice as nicey
although she burn me up
they call her Hot Sauce
she's hotter than pepper
I would have kept her
although she burn me up.
The brother in the codpiece
I seen him on the TV
I think he likes his ladies
all sweet and sugary
now I'm partial to a pudding
but that's for second course.
the main meal and the hors d'oeuvres
must be smothered in hot sauce.
They call her Hot Sauce
she's hot and spicy
but twice as nicey
although she burn me up
they call her Hot Sauce
she's hotter than pepper
I would have kept her
although she burn me up.
What if steam didn't scald (scald!)
how would the story be told? (told!)
she sat and smoked a fag
while I was gagging on the shag
(shag gets in your eyes)
lemme get lost in your sauce baby
cover me in your sauce
lemme get lost in your hot sauce woman.
There was a fire truck attending
the smoke pouring from her nose
her state of mind depending
on which way the wind blowed
chili and tabasco
dripping on my shirt
I couldn't breathe - I couldn't see -
I had to call a smog alert.

― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 03:59 (twenty years ago)

[Verse - Jadakiss]
Gangsta leanin, Kiss be in the bank wit cream and
My wrists and my neck be gleamin
Whatever I got cost, Honey look hotter than Hot Sauce
That's why I get to hop in a drop Porsche
Then she get dropped off, told her that the whole block pop off
She come through, take them rocks off
And therefore, wanna know, what would they stare for
They heard about the work, it's as white as your Air Force
Maybe it's the voice that the world got an ear for
Most of these rappers, I just don't care for
So I be on the honies wit the big ol' asses
Hypno and Cleako in big ol' glasses
We could do the damn thang, order the champagne
Honey's Head of the State, and I'm running the Campaign
If you coming, c'mon, if not I'm gone
Other than that, yo Pharrell, sing my song!

[Chorus - Pharrell Williams (w/ Jada ad-libs)]
You got to move wit the groove
As she lay on the one's and two's
Wait a minute, wait a minute
You gon stink up the room!
Wit that big ol' ass!
Would you go to jail, LIGHT ME UP!
Go to jail, LIGHT ME UP!
Would you go to jail, LIGHT ME UP!
Go to jail, LIGHT ME UP!
Hot sauce to go.. hot sauce to go

― Sterling Clover (s_clover), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 04:00 (twenty years ago)

Isn't this just what ALL classic or dud threads do, Matos?

I suppose they do! I wasn't trying to shut the discussion down, I was just curious about the reasoning.

i mean, hot sauce!?! is it really like that? that banal? i guess i dont get it.

it was a spur-of-the-moment comparison, and the best I could do at that moment, sorry. I was thinking of it in the sense that both are things you either have a taste for or don't. and while that's true of lots of things you could c/d, it just seemed like they were both things that seem not especially debatable in some sense. I suppose that's not necessarily the case, though. (sorry to have engendered the comparisons, Ally.)

― Matos-Webster Dictionary (M Matos), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 05:19 (twenty years ago)

i like my sauce like my sex: straight up missionary with lots of onions.

-- ryan ([email protected]), Yesterday. (ryan) (later)

None of the later posts match this gem!

― regular roundups (Dave M), Tuesday, 18 April 2006 05:21 (twenty years ago)

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